What should i do if i know that my dad is cheeting on my mother,?

Question

my mom and i do not get along and i like the girl that he is cheeting with better than my mom.. what should i do.. is that mean of me??? HELP

Answer 1

I hate to say it, but you're kind of morally obligated to do something.
In the first place, you should understand what your dad is doing is WRONG. W-R-O-N-G. Second, you have to make a decision: talk to your mom, or talk to your dad. Look at all the possibilities, and decide which one will work the best.
You might want to tell your dad that you know what's going on. That will give him an opportunity to either end it with his girlfriend or confront your mom.
If you tell your mom first, knowing that you two don't get along, she might just think that you are trying to hurt her. I know you think this might serve her right, but really, try to look at it from her point of view. Here is a man that she thought she loved, and now he's cheating on her.
You have to be careful, but if I was in your situation, I would go with the "dad" choice.
Good luck.

Answer 2

Stay out of it. Your mom already doesn't get along with you as it is and if you mess up the marriage that situation will just get worst. Plus your dad will start hating you on top of that.

If you live at home then you can say goodbye to that if they get divorced and both blame you.

If it still bothers you get someone else to get involved, so if things go wrong, your parents won't take it out on you. Find a close relative, talk to a priest, or a school counsellor.
Make sure whoever you talk to is a trustable person and is not some blabber mouth who will run around town and embarrass your family.

Answer 3

You must tell . You like the woman ! So What! That's your mom. Put your self in her shoes would you want to know? If your dad has put you in that position he a DOG! Tell her before she finds out that you knew and didn't tell her. Just because you don't get along with your mom now doesn't mean you won't get along with her when you get older. You know what right do it. My daughter didn't like me when she was 16 now we are best friends. She see things different now at 23. Your dad sound like a piece of work he needs to grow up.

Answer 4

You may not be getting along with your Mom, but that doesn't mean she deserves to be treated like that.

This affair is between your Dad and your Mom. You need to stay out of this and do not let yourself get dragged into the middle between your parents.

Answer 5

well no thats not mean who knows what happens between you and your mom. but honestly make your dad come clean and if he doesn't then you should tell her. there is no reason why he can't step up to the plate and be honest.

Answer 6

WOW! What did your mom do that was so horrible that you like a homewrecker over her? Show some respect for her and tell her so that she can get over this and move on.

Answer 7

well confront ur dad first cuz if he isnt then yu dont wanna ruin a marriage. But if yu actually have proof then talk to ur mom

Answer 8

Well....as long as the woman isn't married it isn't cheating...its kind of like polygamy. Why can't your dad just marry both? Tell dad to just marry both and hopefully things will work out.

Answer 9

tell your dad that you know and tell him to tell your mother...it needs to come from him. let him know that you will tell her if doesn't...use this as a threat and a last resort because you don't really want to get in the middle of their mess.

Answer 10

you know. i hate to tell you this but YES.
because no matter if you dont get along with her, she carried you for 9 month, she raised you and gave you food, shelter and clothing. think about it. would any one replace her now????
think about it!