Do White men treat Black women better than Black men treat Black women?

Question

A black lady friend of mine told me this. Is it true?

Hey Castle, you sound like a f*cking fool! Try and be a little smarter next time you want to give an intelligent answer.

Hey tshepiso m, this is a free forum to express ourselves, and if you didn't like the question, you shouldn't have answered it. and stop trying to pretend like racism doesn't exist in this country cause it does!

Answer 1

well my man is white and I have to tell in comparison to my black female friends i have to say yes. thier men disrespect them in ways i cannot even imagine. a couple of them have tried to make a pass at me in front of them. black men tend to be very disrespectful to women, my friends complain that thier men call them sluts and whores if they ask them to wear a condom so they have unprotected sex, knowing that he is cheating on them. my man wouldn't ever do any of that. he is kind, loyal, loving, gentle and we have great time with NO DRAMA!!!! from what i see from my friends relationships, black men tend to be very domineering, and bossy, and ignorant. i work in corp. america as does my friends and MY bf. their men are like contructions workers, janitors and basically have much lower positions and no educations and these women stay with them just to say, they have a man and won't consider dating outside of their race (where they would be more likely to find someone on their level), because they are afraid of being called a sellout. black men call me a sellout, a whore, and all kinds of other name because i am dating a white man. that does not make me want to date one of them. so in essence the answer to your question in my opinion is yes white men do treat black women better than black men treat black women.

Answer 2

This is old but im going to answer anyway. It really depends on the type of community the man was raised in, this goes for whites and blacks or any other race. I have a hard time seeing american black men as potential spouses because I grew up in a dysfunctional community and household and have seen the worst kind of black men. If a white man was raised in a diverse environment or culturally accepting family he is more likely to be a good man but if he was raised in a dysfunctional community then he is just as likely to be a bum. But I dont believe there is any race of men on the planet that degrades their women as much as american black males.

Answer 3

I am black and half Indian, yes white men are way better than black men!!! In my life time, I never had a black man who come up to me and say you are beautiful or what's your name, most of them call me skinny and toothpick, tramp, whore, and they bully me because I act white! I have a white man and he is sooooo kind to me! He told me that if u ever think about sex, I will let u handle it because I don't want to rush you, u must take your time and I like that! Every guy that wanted to take me out are white and I end up having a white man! My mom is racist towards whites. She ask me, why don't u find a nice black man, well my dear there are hardly ever a great black man in this world! Black men are really mean towards women. They also want their women a certain size! Why do u have to have curves to be a real woman?

Answer 4

Yes they do and they are in my opinion WWAAYY better in the sack. They are kind and sensitive and my man (who is white) is the best lover I have ever had, EVER!!!! Black guys are rough and selfish, you can do everything to please them and they will not return the favor. If you tell them that you don't like something in bed or that they are hurting you they will keep doing as long as it makes them feel good. Black men are bossy, lazy, liars. All people lie, but I have not had my white bf or any white man for that matter disrespect me the way black men do. If I am walking down the street they scream "Hey b____ come here" or they try and grab you and get mad, when you don't want to give them your phone number. I once had a black guy throw a brick at me because I wouldn't give him my phone number. So yeah White men are better than black men hands down.

Answer 5

This is all circumstantial....and rather ridiculous if I might add.

I am an interracial girl. I have dated both white and black men. I can honestly tell you, that their color never factored in as to how well they treated me.

Because I command respect and get it. I am a lady in every sense of the word....one that any real MAN would appreciate.

If your friend told you this....well, maybe you should choose your friends a little more wisely.

Answer 6

well it always depends on the people of course. But white men are more wary of being kind to black women or else they could be dubbed racist, but black men are more comfortable with black women because they grew up around dark skinned women (their momma or sister or whoever) so they could act up. White men are also cautious of black women because some have a mouth on them

If an African American man is the abusive type, he's more likely to abuse a woman of his race, because if he did it to a white woman he'd face prejudice in the courts if she went that far. A white man who would abuse a black woman would still be wary because she's female, which gives her the upperhand in court, but also more cocky because he thinks that he could get away w/ it because of his color.

I've seen white men treat black women more scornfully because she didn't have a toothpick body or something. But you can't make a general assumption that white men treat dark skinned women better, because it all depends.

Answer 7

I guess your black lady friend never dated one of those white guys who only dates black women because they're black.

Or a wigger who tried to use them as a status symbol to get some "street cred."

I've got some black lady friends... as you put it... who've told me some pretty different accounts.

Here's my point. When you generalize... you look stupid. You follow me?

Answer 8

that would take alot of research to find out for sure o.o
she's just had some bad experiences with them...
so just leave it alone...I think some men are good and others are just assholes...colour doesn't determine it

Answer 9

I don't think so - (PR/White woman speaking). I was dating a Black guy who cheated on me and got one of my Black office mates pregnant while I was still dating him, he then denied that the child was his & got fired from the job about 3 months later.

I really don't think it has anything to do with skin color - men of all colors are F****** Dogs & Pigs!

Answer 10

I think green men treat their women the best. I'm not a racist, but to hell with purple people! We have to draw a line somewhere, don't we?