Recently i post my question thnks for your replies..so as i said you about that girl who used to study with me in coaching classes but we never introduce our self.She used to starred at me but when i see her she den turn her eyes and the about samecase for myself.what was it?? we were attracted ? or jus a common thing? please sort out my problem... it kills!
2007-01-30 06:50:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to ask if it's love, it's not love.
2007-01-30 06:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Ask her what her favorite TV shows are, what class she likes the best, what she hates the worst, etc. In other words, be friendly and start a conversation. This will show her that you're interested in at least TALKING to her, and she might start talking to you, too. Eventually you'll figure out if she's interested in dating you, or if she just thinks you'll be a nice friend, or if she actually didn't notice you before at all.
She sounds shy. This means that, even if she really likes you, and even if you start a conversation with her ten times, she still won't approach you. I'm shy like this, and people like us are VERY difficult to read.
It might be helpful to communicate over myspace or email-- it gives her a low-pressure way to send you a message herself. Deciding to reply to an email is a lot easier for a shy person than to decide to initiate a converstation.
But that's just if she's shy-- if she's not shy, just start a conversation with her, and afterwards, if she's interested, she'll probably start a conversation with YOU later. Things will flow naturally from there! :)
Have fun, and no, it's not true love.
2007-01-30 15:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both catch each other staring, there must be some interest. Be a man and go over and introduce yourself - something like "I noticed you looking my way. How would you like to go get a coffee and talk for a bit?" Then bring up something you have in common like the coaching classes. If she's interested, she will accept the offer and you're on your way. If she's not interested, she will probably say 'no thanks' and nothing is lost, other than your problem of knowing whether or not she has an interest in you.
2007-01-30 15:00:25 · answer #3 · answered by Coach T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attraction/crush. if you dont know anything about her and havent had time to develop a relationship beyond friendship it isnt love my friend. Ask her out...Good Luck!
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2007-01-30 14:53:47 · answer #4 · answered by morena0kizzez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not love she just had a crush on u so what i would do is hey ***** what the **** u looking at problem solved
2007-01-30 14:56:07 · answer #5 · answered by G WeeziE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its just a crush.
2007-01-30 14:57:41 · answer #6 · answered by la_chika_loves_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋