what do you think about women who put out on the first date,and women do you expect a man to have sex with you on the first date?
2007-01-30 06:50:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HELL NO. I would NEVER expect anyone to have sex after ONE date... that is whorish. If a girl puts out on the first date... the guy knows she is a whore and wont respect her as much.
2007-01-30 06:59:09 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well one of my bf's had sex on the first date and ended up marrying the guy. they said when the first saw each other they new instantly, they have been married for almost 11yrs now and have two kids. i have never experienced that therefore would not have sex on the first date. i don't think anything negative or positive about a girl or guy who has sex on the first date. i don't expect the man to want anything physical at all on the first date and if the guy expected he would quickly find out that he is not going to get it.
Most men who think that women who put out on the first date are trashy I think those same men are hypocrites because they slept with her. I think most men have a double standard. I mean look at the guy above me. How many 1st dates has he had sex on? I'm sure he has had his fair share, however he expects his woman to be some tower of virtue and chastity. I say show me a guy who will keep his dick in his pants and I will show you a girl who will keep her legs closed. It is also my experience when girls do give in it's because they feel pressured too, not because they actually want to. Then men ridicule them for doing what they were pressured to do in the first place. It's sick.
2007-01-30 15:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by Love United 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women who "put out" on the first date are either desperate or trashy. There are certain circumstances, like if the date is an all day get together, where making love on the first date is acceptable. If you go out with someone for a couple hours and they want to sleep with you , think about how many other dates she has been on and done the same thing, Scary!
2007-01-30 15:04:12 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are those rare slip ups when everyone uses alcohol as to blame, Spring Break, College Parties, A Trip to another country. But in a normal setting i definatly would say its not a good look. If a female wanted to have sex on the first date i would seriously think something was wrong with her cause that isnt in the norm.
2007-01-30 15:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Crossed M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id say if he thinks he is getting some on the first date, he is another thing coming. First date is no time to be sleeping with anyone
2007-01-30 14:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even expect a kiss on the first date, let alone sex. I just expect to have a good time.
2007-01-30 14:54:26 · answer #6 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women who put out on the first date are cheap and easy. I wouldn't want to be with anyone who is easy, they've probably done it with a lot of other people. I want a girl who respects herself and waits until they've been with a guy for a while and loves him.
2007-01-30 14:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont care much ,just date if something falls by,i dnt kiss or do anything unless clear sign and honestly i am not deeply involved ,just like the sensation and thats it ,sex kiss or no ,no difference and doesnt change my opinion ,i am better off with no woman,but an occasional encounter or date is good sometimes
2007-01-30 14:57:21 · answer #8 · answered by reifguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good thing
2007-01-30 14:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by CSA_NP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't matter to me one way or the other.
2007-01-30 14:58:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋