My BF broke up with me last week & I'm still trying to figure out his reason why. He had other women calling his phone, so he decided to put a lock on it & when I looked at it he had a fit because the thought I was going to call the number back. He later packed up half of his cloths & said he was going to stay at his moms but I was suspicious, so I later went over to his friends house where he was watching the game & saw him with some girl so I followed them & he spotted me. He in turn dumped me because he said I wasn't trustworthy. I lied at first about following him because I wanted to confront him face to face not over the phone. I later admitted to it & he said he couldn't be with a liar. I let him move in & he wasn't paying any bills & he was still talking to other women on the phone. He collected a number on New Years Eve that I threw away. Why'd he leave me & what did I do wrong?
2007-01-30 06:48:00 · 24 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey hun!
He left you because you were ruining his game! He is a player and, unfortunately, you were another one of his games. You began to challenge his lying ways, and he didn't like it, so he dumped you! Don't ask what you did wrong!! He's the one who was wrong...not enough of a man to be upfront and honest about who he was. He sponged off of you, allowing you to support him. Believe me, if you hadn't challenged him, he would've continued to use you. Even though HE ended the relationship, you're much better off without the loser!
2007-01-30 08:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be glad he's gone! Listen to yourself...he moved in, didn't pay any bills and collected other girls phone numbers. These are all reasons that you should have broken up with him. Why not try to find someone who will give as much in a relationship as you are willing to give. A relationship should make you happy and make you a better person. Stop following him, let him go and be glad you didn't waste anymore time with him.
2007-01-30 15:01:17 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were an obsessive girlfriend, welcome to the club. You obviously didn't trust your man and he could tell. You can restrict how he talks to or what he does, but a relationship needs trust and when he broke up with you, it's because you didn't trust him and he could feel that. You didn't do anything wrong, persay, but you did do a lot of things not exactly the best way. Don't chase your guy around and then lie to him. You have to trust him and let that lingering suspiscion die down.
2007-01-30 14:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A more important question to be asking is "why do I want to be with a cheating freeloader?" It sounds like you didn't trust him from the start, and with no trust, a relationship is doomed. Let him be some other girl's problem. For next time, remember this: be honest and don't play stupid games.
2007-01-30 14:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didnt do ANYTHING wrong... HE IS THE @SSHOLE... Seriously.. read what you wrote. If this was a friends scenario and NOT yours... You would be telling your friend how much of a loser this guy is and that she doesnt deserve being treated like nothing more than a sugar momma. Go out and find someone who has NEVER cheated EVER before, and he will treat you alot better than that jerk. He was using you sweets... You were following your gut.
2007-01-30 14:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Forget him. He's a cheat who didn't want to get caught. You caught him, so now he has dumped you. He tried to turn it around on your to save his own face and to not be caught. What a jerk! Move onto someone who respects you. I would have done the same thing. I don't think you did anything wrong.
2007-01-30 14:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, reality check. He is a CHEATER, and further more a man doesn't need to be living in your home not paying any bills. I would have followed him too, and he wouldn't be on the phone with other women.. You need to quit worrying about him, and MOVE ON. He is not worth your time or energy.
2007-01-30 14:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He left you because hes a liar and a cheater, so celebrate. Whats wrong with you you got to have a man like that, who lives off you, calls women while he lives off you, and then tell you hes going to mom when hes going out with some girl.
What you did wrong is get ready to get in his face about his lies and garbage, so he hit you first.
You cannot possibly be so ugly that you need a creep like that in your life.
2007-01-30 14:54:40 · answer #8 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Geeze Sweetie, you need to get over this loser. Why would you want him back? To be used again? Good Riddance to him. You can do better. Don't you want someone that will love you like you love him? You deserve that. To answer you question though, you didn't do anything any other normal gf would have done. He was over you, and looking to score somewhere else. Let the next girl have his headaches.
2007-01-30 14:52:45 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Reading all of your other questions shows that you are clingy, jealous, controlling and disrespectful, along with being a liar. And you are all of these things constantly, that you apologize and then do the same things over and over again. He probably broke up with you because he was fed up with the unhealthy relationship he was in with you.
2007-01-30 17:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋