Tell me is it easier for him to move on and get over it by bedding another woman? is it easier than it is for a woman?....or does he dwell on thoughts of who is going to be loving her next?... maybe this could be a two way thing, but what do men do when a woman has cheated on them? what thoughts go through his head?... we women may cut our hair cry, or even shop with our girlfriends how do guys handel this? does he drown his sorrows into his beer? what?
2007-01-30 06:44:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It all depends on his personality. But it all comes to the same issue: “What happened? Why did she do it? Am I not good enough for her?” And if you think about it, is about the same that goes through you girls minds when he is the one cheating. Still, the reaction depends on the person, and how good or bad is being by the time he or she finds out.
As far as I have seen (some of my friends) they all handle this kind of thing very different.
For instance, one of my friends found out his girlfriend of over 4 years was cheating on him. He got all depressed, tried to talk to her, but it did not help, I’m not sure how that “talk” was, but at the end she gave him the ring back, and he threw it away to a river they happened to be close by when they were talking. Of course, he told her to go to hell. What happened next was very scary: I found out (from him!) months after the whole thing that he had a gun pointing to his head and ready to shut himself, but he didn’t do it, I think cause of his family, and hopefully cause he understood that his life is more valuable than that ***** (sorry but I don’t think any better of her after what she did for no reason except to enjoy a different dick inside her).
But then you get another friend of mine who found out his girlfriend of 9 years (9 freaking years!) decided to move away and then started to date other people once she was gone. What did he do? He did the same; he started to date even three girls at the same time! And I have to say that he can’t be happier than what he is now.
And as for myself, I can’t really say too much about this cause both my wife and I agreed long time ago that if any of us want to have sex with someone else, then we just tell each other, and if we agree, we do it. Once we had some trouble, but after we decided this, things went better in our life. To start to be honest is hard, but once you discover how easy is to keep a honest relation, things go way better. And yes, we had had some fun with others, and we are ok with it.
So you see, three different stories and on each, we (the guys) had different reactions.
2007-01-30 07:58:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dan D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont cheat
2007-01-30 14:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tweetz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he goes and bangs your sister....well...that's what i did anyway!!!
2007-01-30 14:49:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋