How do you make out with a guy?when your in his mouth how do you move your tongue and how long do you stay in his mouth? I just want to know everything! Please Help me!!!!???? This might be kinda an inapropriate question im just wanting the basics and im nervous because I have to make out with this guy and i've never made out before. Please help and tell me what to do as if you were the one making out with them! Please Help ME!!! Thanks for your help!
2007-01-30 06:43:21 · 13 answers · asked by TaraKara3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Watch this: http://www.metacafe.com/watch/126976/glass_lick/
It is actually a really good demonstration of the mouth movements during kissing (although I would suspect most people don't progress that fast). Keep in mind the tongue shouldn't actually be licking the other person's face, but rather doing it's thing within each others mouths.
Start soft, gentle, build pressure gradually, and keep mixing things up. Touch his face, squeeze his hand, press to him.
He may try and take the lead, but don't forget to reciprocate. If he goes too fast too soon, pull back slightly, teasingly. Or, pull away more completely if you need to (say you need to "catch your breath," that'll make him feel good!)
Realize things might be awkward--don't be discouraged! It's an adventure
2007-01-30 06:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by aparadoxsimple 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all...Its OK that you havent made out with a guy. DONT do it just because you feel obligated, he is not going to know you have never kissed before, let him take the first step and then you just move a long with it. Kissing is like Dancing, someone has to lead and someone has to follow, and when he stops you can stop too it all depends on your partner, and dont worry babe you have your WHOLE life to perfect your technique. Just dont wear chapstick or lipgloss it makes it too sticky, and dont kiss too lightly or it will tickle...um im sure if you google it theu have some kiss techniques. Just make sure your first kiss is "special"
<3 M.C. age 14
2007-01-30 06:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by morena0kizzez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The worst thing you could when making out is not to relax. So, don't worry so much about how it's going to be - just relax.
Remember, no make out session of yours will be anything like in the movies. For one, you don't have a director telling you what to do. Two, you won't have music swelling up in the background. Three, you most likely won't repeat the exact same ordeal in the same way over and over again.
But your make out session will be more special than what's shown in the movies simply because it will mean something to YOU - especially if you wait for the right person.
So really, no need to stress out. Just relax - it'll be all good.
And for the record, I really like this quote:
"It's not the kiss that's special - it's the moment right before the kiss."
Edit:
Oh and... forget to breathe. ;)
2007-01-30 06:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, your age doesnt mean you should be ashamed! It's a good thing that you've kept your tongue to yourself till now. But, it's one of those things that when it happens, you will know what to do. It's all about style. I'm sure you've at least seen movies where people make out and as long as you're not trying to shove your tongue down his throat and you're creative with it, all should be good. I remember when I was scared to death of this moment.... Honey, you're going to be great!
2007-01-30 06:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by SiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing shameful in not having made out with a guy before, it's actually quite sweet. Assuming he's made out before let him lead. Try and relax, you will respond naturally. Above all remember to enjoy it and don't feel pressured to go any further until/unless you're ready.
2007-01-30 06:50:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats to be ashamed of ? just relax you said you have to make out with this guy first of all you dont have to do anything that you dont want to do.Second just follow his lead and everthing will be ok. Different guys like different kisses .i dont want you craming you tounge down my throat i like soft slow gentlewet kisses hope this helped
2007-01-30 06:52:59 · answer #6 · answered by lawson403 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
put you tongue in his mouth a little, make slow random up/down/circular massages to his tongue. This also applies to his genitalia.
2007-01-30 06:56:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just relax and go with the flow.being 17 isnt nothing to worry about.when the time comes,things will fall into place.if he knows what to do,just follow him and soon you will be a pro at it.just remember,dont do it unless you want to.
2007-01-30 07:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be ashamed.
A kiss comes naturally.
It takes 2 so don't worry about
what to do, let him guide u
and enjoy the moment.
2007-01-30 06:50:41 · answer #9 · answered by Curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph be patient and let everything in life take its course or you will regret it
2007-01-30 06:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋