We have been together 6 years and she became un happy when we hang out and doesn't know why. She wants time away from me and hopes it will make her feel better. She says she has no idea whats making her unhappy but when where apart she misses me but when we are together their is a problem. Did and women ever experience anything similar to this and go back to that guy or is it pretty much over?
2007-01-30 06:23:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She keeps calling and stays on the phone for hours. I only called her once since the breakup on sunday afternoon. We talk more now then when we broke up.
2007-01-30 07:00:06 · update #1
I hate to say this, but it is over. If she is unhappy when she is around you, there is no future in it. I would advise you to cut your losses and move on.
2007-01-30 06:35:48 · answer #1 · answered by Elizabeth Howard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When we had some similar situation, I went on line to personals and found some really nice guys to come over and pass a Sunday afternoon with her in the guest room.
She never did the same fellow more than twice, and was very stimulated both for her studies and for our relationship by the experiences. She used nine guys, and then that was the end of it, and she has for the last six years, since graduation, refused even to discuss it, though she thinks it was an important remedy for sagging selfconfidence and just a need for variety and expanded esperience. She was a virgin when we met.
I don't recomend this for anyone else, I only say that it worked better than counseling for us, and I'm glad that it's over.
2007-01-30 14:46:20 · answer #2 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even thou she misses you when she is gone, it seems she doesn't miss you enough. i would say it is time to let her go and start over. it is not fair to you when she leaves and then wants to come back. all she is doing is keeping you hanging on
2007-01-30 14:53:27 · answer #3 · answered by bone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋