2007-01-30 06:21:44 · 19 answers · asked by shante 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a boy does not want to tell other people that you are going out, YOU ARE NOT HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!!!!
Sounds like you are just his little thing.
2007-01-30 06:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by The Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is hiding something or someone, if he doesn't want to let the world know he cares, he's either hiding something or (pardon the expression)" He's just not into you."And doesn't want anyone to know. You need to drop him like a hot potato, there are good ones still out there, you don't have to settle, if you're not happy with your life change it. You are the only one to know what you wan,t if this bothers you it's wrong.Or if you feel it shout it to the world, he will either stay or go and you'll know, if he doesn't he wasn't worth the time anyway.
2007-01-30 06:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Joner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him that means either he already has girlfriend or he is ashamed of you for whatever reason. I hope you didn't have sex with him and if you did, chances are your relationship is not so down low as he would like you to think.
2007-01-30 06:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by Love United 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he may has issues. If he's embarrassed of you, then you don't need that..dump him and find better. If that's not it, then he's not in a position to have a relationship right now because of other things going on in his life. Tell him you'll check back with him when he gets his business in order.
2007-01-30 06:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by Helper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get a boyfriend that loves you with all his heart that he'll shout it to everyone in the world. This guy has a reason for not wanting anyone to know about you. That always spells disaster. If he cared at all about you he wouldn't want to hide yo and your guys' relationship!
2007-01-30 06:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by b-recca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do exactly the opposite of what he wants...when you shake the tree, something is bound to fall out and hit the ground. Meaning, he's hiding something, and if you become loud about it...proud of being with him...the truth will come out.
My guess...He's either embarrassed about you in some way, or he's cheating on someone with you...
Shake your tree and see what happens!
Good luck!
2007-01-30 06:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find out why. No one should want their relationship a secret. He might have a good reason for it, but unlikely. Just talk to him first and if there is no good reason and he wants to just keep You a secret. No good.
2007-01-30 06:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants you to keep it on the DL then I don't think he is too thrilled about being with you and the two of you should not be together. Find someone new.
2007-01-30 06:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is he ashamed of you? Is he in another relationship? Why would he not want people to know that you are dating? You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone that has to deny you in public. You deserve to be known. You only hide what you are ashamed about.....don't allow yourself to be hidden. If he is ashamed of you love yourself more and don't be ashamed of yourself.
2007-01-30 06:31:14 · answer #9 · answered by DaddysGirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
post a question like"my boyfriend so and so wants me to..."use his name. that way we can all know you are going out and it wont be on the down low anymore
2007-01-30 06:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by rockstar_livin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋