Ok...yesterday i called my boyfriend 2 times and sent him a text message 2 times he didn't reply or call back...then i went to his house because i had to give him his puppy and i asked him "why didn't u call back or replied my text" he said that he lost his cell phone...but he could've called me from his house phone because i called him at his house too....i didn't believe him when he told me he lost his phone...what do you think??avoiding or not...
2007-01-30 06:12:27 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ i L0VE U S0 MUCH ♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to step back and look at your relationship as a whole with this boy. Are you generally distrustful or has he given you reason to be? I have misplaced my cell phone on a number of occasions and then it goes dead and is even harder to find, and then it turns up. People really do lose their cell phones, but if you try his cell phone again and he has it you could ask him what happened. You are right that he could have responded to your message on his house phone, but remember, if he is the only one living in the house (1) someone else could have gotten the message and not given it to him; (2) he may not have been able to use the phone if someone else was on it even if he did get your message or (3) he may not have gotten around to returning your message before you got there. If you don't have anything better to do than sit around waiting for his return call, maybe you should examine your own life to make it more fulfilled so you don't feel as if you need a boy/man in it to fulfill you. Please remember that you need to love yourself and being with yourself before you can love another unselfishly. Good luck.
2007-01-30 06:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should have called since you did have his puppy. And you're right, he could have called from his house phone.
I suggest that you back off a bit and don't try calling him 4 times in a day. If you don't chase him, he'll have to chase you!
2007-01-30 14:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by torn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this but yeah it sounds like he was avoding you. If it was just a cell phone he had to use then I'd say not to worry but since he has a house phone to use and still did not call back I'd say it sure seems that way.
2007-01-30 14:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lawd have mercy. Damn there is a conspiracy theory everywhere. Do you women want everything to be a lie? If he says he lost his phone he lost the phone until you see it and know that he is lying. Stop all the damn private investigating. And if he is avoiding you let him and go do your own thing. You guys are not married.
2007-01-30 14:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are you? His mom?
I think you need to realize that your world does not revolve around your boyfriend. Hang out with other friends, read, watch TV. Do SOMETHING. That way you won't feel the need to call your boyfriend 4 times a day.
He's probably just avoiding telling you that you're annoying the crap out of him.
2007-01-30 14:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Basiate 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think theres really anything to worry about. he very well could have called you phone and not know you called. there are many different explanations as to why he didnt answer or call you back. its completely normal to feel insecure about this kind of thing..but generally, theres nothing wrong.
but remember, in every relationship each person needs their alone time too.
2007-01-30 14:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is playing you. Girl don't fall for that! I've been there, done that. He is a liar. Trust yourself, make you happy. I wouldn't avoid it, because if you do, trust, it will stress you out. And no man is worth stressing over. Yourself worth is better than that. Good luck!!
2007-01-30 14:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by ashleyjones21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes playing games with you.Why dont you drop him. He doesnt sound like a nice guy to me. .
2007-01-30 14:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh he's avoiding. But don't worry give him a little time and he might start wondering about you.
2007-01-30 14:20:49 · answer #9 · answered by anna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kinda sounds like he's avoiding you, unfortunately.
2007-01-30 14:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by emsss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋