Could she miss me? What do I do?

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Could she miss me? What should I do?
I met a girl almost a year ago that I really liked, but after a few months I made a mistake and she wouldn't talk to me. I stopped trying to talk to her after one week. I tried talking to her on the last day of school and she responded until I asked her if she was still mad at me, at which she said no, she just didn't want to talk to me. I didn't see her over the summer until school started again. When I would say hi to her or walk by her she wouldn't even look at me. After a while she did start saying hi to me then stopped again. Since then I had been ignoring her while still thinking about her. After ignoring her for over a month an returning to school from the Christmas break I noticed she started looking at me from a distance or when she was close until I would look at her, then she would quickly look away. At lunch she either sits at a table where she looks directly at me or at a table that's close to mine. Are there any more signs I could look for to show that she misses me?

What happened was she told me she was falling in love with someone else about a year ago and that a couple of her friends were falling in love too. I panicked and told a friend what she said. I was afraid of her liking someone else besides me. I left out the names of her firends she told me when I told him. He figured out who and teased her friends about falling in love, so the girl I like got mad at me and wouldn't talk to me. The boy she said she was falling in love with at the time, now she recently argued with him (I was there) telling him "I'm never mean to you! You're always mean to me!" It seems like they're not really talking now. I told her I was sorry. No matter how stupid it sounds, at the time I didn't know better to not say anything at all that we talked about. We were only friends before. Today I just want to be friends instead of being her boyfriend since she didn't like me that way, and because she's the kind of girl I want to stay with forever.

She's no longer mad at me for what I know, I just haven't tried to start a convesation with her yet. The other thing I'm afraid of is if we keep going on like this until I graduate this year I may never see her again. I do make sure I don't seem needy when she's around. She sees me talk to other people and seems to pay more attention when I'm talking to other girls. She also seems to walk with a friend right next to me when I'm talking to someone sometimes.

I also recognize there are other fish in the sea, it's just that I also know I'll never find another like her. We never dated once, and I hope to go somewhere, anywhere, with her one day.

And what do I do for V-day and her B-day? Should I wait till her b-day so I can talk to her then and say "happy birthday?''

Answer 1

you need to talk to her man. one on one. personal. find out where her head is at. is she dating anybody? is she looking for a b/f? id say just let her know that you really didn't mean for anyone to find out her secret adn that you'd never do that to her purposely. before you leave try askin her out to a movie or brunch or something. take her flowers, candy. you know. girls love the stuff we see in movies man! but really though, talk to her face to face and ask her how she feels about you after you let her know how you're feeling right now. but be sure that shes really not mad at you over that old bs, she could out you to the whole school or some dumb high school ish liek that ... girls do play games sometimes ... hope it works out man.

Answer 2

Okay well after all that I have read im not sure about this girl. It seems that in a way she is immature and playing alot of games. She doesnt want to be bothered wit you when your paying attention to her but then when your talkin to other females she is paying attention to you. I honestly would say if you really like her then talk to her about it. i wouldnt try to rush into tryin to be in a relationship with her but if you want to be friends then I would consider you tellin her you would like to be friends. But I honestly think you should give her a little space. Maybe give her your number if she calls, she calls but dont press the matter to much. Let her know your interested but leave the ball in her court. That way you wont come off to needy to her. And I would say keep your eyes open for other females. Realize your still young and there are alot more females that your eyes have still not seen. I wouldnt stress to much on this one girl.

Answer 3

:) that she misses you? such youthful and inexperienced love is difficult to interpret. if you really want to try with the girl why dont you talk to her...get near her that way. send her funny notes or such that might make her smile. simple things. maybe she'll start looking for you. find out what she likes and get involved with her and those things. peace

Answer 4

You need to just ask her to go out with you and see what happens from there.