i think my brother is gay in a way! but i want to make sure
2007-01-30 06:09:12 · 7 answers · asked by baby angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Just ask him nicely and maybe he will tell you straight up the truth!!!!!!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-01-30 07:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by baby_ems_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter whether he is or isn't gay? I tend to agree with a previous post which said to just be there for him. If the two of you are close, and he is gay, he will probably confide in you when he is ready to confide in anyone at all. Personally, I don't really agree with most who say to ask him. If he is and he wants anyone to know yet, he will say so. What purpose is there really in asking other than to satisfy one's own curiosity? Just remain close to him, with an open mind and heart, and let him come to you (if there is anything to come out of the closet about that is). If he doesn't come to you to confide in anything, maybe there is nothing to confide. In any case, time will ultimately tell.
2007-01-30 15:08:06 · answer #2 · answered by Super-Mom9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can never really be sure unless they tell you ...some people act a certain way and are assumed to be gay and are not, so just ask or wait and see if they volunteer the information to you about who they prefer
2007-01-30 14:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by kellygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be there for your brother. Love him for everything he is, give him your ear. He may or may not be, but at least you know if he has your shoulder, your ear, and your understanding, you will be the first person he comes to. It can be a terribly hard thing I am sure, trying to come out, but having no one to share your heart with. Make sure he knows you will in no way judge him, but be there to help him and listen. Give him your ear, and before ya know it, he will pour out his soul to you. Goodluck!
2007-01-30 14:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All gay men are named Steve or Rick and have track lighting ... LOL sorry, could help that .... it's a line from the movie Steel Magnolia's.
Why don't you discreetly ask him?
2007-01-30 14:38:58 · answer #5 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Nicely!
2007-01-30 14:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask
2007-01-30 14:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋