Men for a ride....women who expect men to pay for everything to squander money on them to keep up their high maintenance, and continually screw a man over, because he is besotted with her, and after all this she only wants him for what he can give her..... what do guys think of a woman like this?....is it the guys fault for being so free to give and allowing her to lavrish?.....how would any guy deal with a woman like this?..... just curious.
2007-01-30 06:02:42 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys are free to make their own choices. If he's with a woman like that, it's because he wants to be. It's a free country. He's responsible for his own choices and behavior-- it he gets taken for a ride, it's because he allowed it.
2007-01-30 06:09:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is absolutely NOT the man's fault; he might allow himself to get stuck in a relationship like this because he is needy or enjoys the sex too much to see the real picture. These are weaknesses but not culpable faults. The woman is being deliberately manipulative and operates according to dishonest and self-seeking principles. If he can possibly see her for what she really is and get out before she gets her claws in too deep then he absolutely should. The longer he waits, the worse it will be.
2007-01-30 14:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by Black Dog 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women who do that to men are horrible. Honestly, what happened to self respect?
As for if it's the guys fault, no, it's not. He's going into the relationship with caring and unselfishness, and is then completely being taken advantage of. What a shame. Women wonder where all of the "good" men are...well, they are right there under their noses, being used.
2007-01-30 14:12:01 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men being naive, think that is the way to get and keep a woman.Others know what these type of women are up to but don't mind as long as they get what they want in return. Then there are men who are not naive and don't always want something in return. They like to pamper and spend money on women.These type of men are just generous in their nature and enjoy spending money on women. There are all types of men but usually you only hear about the stingy and so-called hard or bad boys.Some of the women who get money and think they are slick are not as clever as they think they are.
2007-01-30 14:20:08 · answer #4 · answered by LORD BALTIMORE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets see, I would go to her home, knock on her door and spit her on the face.
Coming from mexico ALMOST all women are like that and that's why we love American girls, more simple, much less high maintenance.
Most of the time yes, its cuz of dumb kids that wanna show off daddy's money to impress a girl and then they grow up thinking everything has to be done for them.
I would never even consider callin or talkin to a girll like that. That's why there are equal rights, women have hands and feet to do the same thing.
2007-01-30 14:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Each man makes his choice..... we continue to give chase in the hope that we will attain what we want.
If we do not attain it, then we (the ones who really know the score) just look inside our selves and say " well maybee next time, I should have done x,y,z. different"
then upon meeting a woman who truly loves us we kick ourselves in the rear for all the wasted money.
live and learn so that we may live and conquer - - - that's what it is to be a man.
so as for thinking any certain way of the females you described.... well, it is our own fault for gettin' taken for a ride.
2007-01-30 14:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by dharp66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The biggest problem with dating today is exactly as you said, certain women demand their boyfriends spend whatever it takes to maintain a lifestyle. Selfishness is the main reason for this. I refuse to be in a relationship that requires excessive financial expenditures to maintain someones image. If all someone cares about is money & their image, then they're pretty self centered.
In the end it's either play by their rules or be single.
2007-01-30 14:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by Diamond24 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well normally, if I could tell this was what she was after, and she was really cute, I would probably just go along w/ it for a little while, but in the meantime, I would be having all the sex I could get out of her, but only if she was really cute. I would buy her the stuff she wanted, but I would in return have the most dirtiest and outrageous sex w/ her, and probably dump her after a month or 2..
2007-01-30 14:09:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys not suppose to let women make fools of themselves. It takes experience - you learn to recognize when the woman is milking you or when she is really interested in you. Like for everything else in life - you'd have to pay to learn this by making yourself a fool with women first...
2007-01-30 14:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Michael R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy but I really don't think it is any worse than the way men take from women. Men have always used women for casual sex and then they get upset when someone takes something from them.
2007-01-30 14:09:23 · answer #10 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋