was friends with leah and her husban david. not friends anymore. i was friends with david before they got married. we are no longer friends for a number of reasons. she likes to act like it was all me. gofiguer right. well i tried to let her know that david and i was sleeping together for a while along with some other mean things. she did not believe me and said i was stalking her. we used to be late picking her up from work and she even had a dream about it once david told me about it. well it was true and i have the laugh at the end but want her to know that. but i also wish her well in her life. how do i get past this whole thing.
2007-01-30 05:49:54 · 14 answers · asked by lady bug 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You obviously do not really wish her well in life if you still feel the need to tell her you slept with her husband. If you want to move past this whole thing then you need to just let it go. Who are you trying to hurt by telling her what happened? Her, him, or yourself? You need to find things that make you happy and let the past stay in the past.
2007-01-30 05:57:19 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you wish her well in life when you're only trying to be mischevious by telling her that you slept with her husband. if you really wished her well, you would have told her long ago that her husband is a cheating dog. leave these poor people alone. it sounds like you are stalking them. come to grips with the situation. it didn't work out for you. oh well. find some new friends that can help you take your mind off this drama.
2007-01-30 13:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't really think that you should tell especiallly since they've already been married for a while but the fact that you guys aren't friends anymore kind of proved to her that you guys really were sleeping together and you probably don't have to tell her . I think that she knows already , and i really also think that she has forgife your friend but she wouldnt want you back in his life due to the history that you guys have already and be honest can you blame her?
2007-01-30 13:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by tomi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have an unusal cruel undertone that I am sensing. Why don't you leave those people in peace and quit bothering them? Is it so important that you have the last word? Geez you are really honest about your feelings here, but you sound manipulative and hateful.
Try some counseling.
2007-01-30 13:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by jim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its none of your buisness anymore. If their married and your not friends with either of them, its not your place. You need to mind your own buisness. Now if she came to you and ask, tell all. But if you go out of your way to tell her something like this, it shows who's the more mature person. And that wouldn't be you. Its their marriage, their buisness. If she wants to know, she'll come to you and ask.
2007-01-30 13:55:13 · answer #5 · answered by gi_jane_kicks_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say find someone you trust or a counselor whom you will be able to get it all out but as far as them, just stay away. if you trully wish her well in life, let her marriage be and stay away from them. Move on sweetie. Live your own life.
2007-01-30 13:54:38 · answer #6 · answered by ahuga 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her an email or an im letting her know, you could try calling her, or sending her a letter via- postal mail.
2007-01-30 13:54:09 · answer #7 · answered by Daisy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with another married man, obviously one that you're not friend with his wife though.
2007-01-30 13:53:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mimi149 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offence but first your a hoer second talk this out with her and let everything out and dont expect anythingyou slept with her man but if she doesnt want to hear it then leave her and him alone to figure this out
2007-01-30 13:57:11 · answer #9 · answered by foxxy 101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most women just wipe it off with a towel
2007-01-30 13:52:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋