boyfriend cheated. all 4 girls found out at once. what to do?...simple as that
2007-01-30 05:46:04 · 43 answers · asked by Fragile Stone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought about it because he cheated on me with three other girls dont think i will but let me know if i should
2007-01-30 06:15:12 · update #1
NO!
Revenge = Guilt.
Let him swim in his own guilt, you have the satisfaction of knowing what a good woman you are, STAY THAT WAY & forget that loooooooooooser!
2007-01-30 05:50:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never a good option. All it does is make you obsess on the thing that hurt you when it is better to just deal with it and move on. My TI in Air Force basic training had a saying that has helped me though my life. It was "Deal with it and grow". Revenge will just make you bitter, and you won't really feel any better when the revenge has been completed. If a guy has cheated on you, especially with 3 other women, you should just walk away from the relationship, break off all communication after you have broken up, and move on with your life. Why would you want to waste your precious time concerning yourself with a person like that?
2007-01-30 05:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by vegasg8r89129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge, Bitterness. and hatred are all negative actions that give the other person a continued power and control over your life. God says Vengeance is mine.He will take care of it. Go forward find another boyfriend. Living your life and going on is what you need to do . If he respected himself and you he would not have been involved with others at the same time. Good you found out before you were his wife. Hold up your head be happy and GO Forward.
2007-01-30 05:58:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is never the answe, even thought the thought may sound uber-tempting and the results delicious. The main reason being an ethical one, and also keep in mind that karma's a *****. It will always come back to you. It's better to leave it alone and move on, I know it's difficult, especially after being deceived like that, but you will thank yourself for doing so later. Besides, why waste your energy on someone that doesn't deserve it? Save it up and use it in a good way towards your friends/yourself/someone you love or care for. Take care.
2007-01-30 05:56:08 · answer #4 · answered by polishedamethyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best revenge would be to spread the word what a low life he is and see how many other girls would be willing to get involved with him after they find out.
2007-01-30 05:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave his sorry ***. Revenge is never good. It wont take away the pain that you are feeling right now. Remember this guy is a looser. You can do better and meet someone that is going to respect you because this guy doesnt.
2007-01-30 05:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by beenie 21 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry about revenge. Dump the guy, he is not worth your time. Dumping him is the best revenge, move on to someone who will treat you with respect.
2007-01-30 07:36:21 · answer #7 · answered by journeysmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have a moral bone in his body. Revenge won't change anything. He will probably get his sooner or later. You know the saying " what goes around comes around". One day he will fall in love with someone and she will play him.
2007-01-30 05:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by MG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is never the answer. It always comes back to bite you in the butt. My suggestion is to let others know when asked why you are not seeing him. His reputation will not be the same. But don't do it maliciously.
2007-01-30 05:51:09 · answer #9 · answered by jeannie_quin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is a dish best served cold.
What to do? Walk away and never look back! Oh, and of course, get yourself to the local clinic for HIV/AIDS and STD testing.
2007-01-30 05:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋