Ok i love this guy and he means alot to me but i also have feelings for another guy ...but not as strong becasue im not sure that im willing to let them get that strong...should i stick with the one im sure i love and could be with for awhile?
2007-01-30 05:44:33 · 5 answers · asked by A-Trip 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not sure I agree with Titicaca, in that you dont have feelings for the 'one you love'... if you're young, i think it's natural to feel kinda awkaward and skeptical about who you're with. But I do think that if you and the 'loved' one have something good, be big enough to realize that and never believe that the grass will be greener. There's a good chance it'll be artificial.
2007-01-30 05:54:43 · answer #1 · answered by SiC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, why would you not be willing to let your feelings for the other guy get that strong? If your feelings are supposed to grow, they will, no matter how much you deny it. I think that if you loved this first guy as much as you say you do, you wouldn't need to be asking this question - obviously there are some doubts in your mind about him, whether or not there is another guy involved. I would say, avoid the second guy for a bit and see how you feel about the one you 'love'. Don't leave the first relationship just because there is a guy waiting in the wings...leave because you really don't want to be with him.
2007-01-30 13:54:37 · answer #2 · answered by jerk19magnet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick with the guy you have now. I did the same thing you are talking about, and i lost the love of my life and the guy i liked and wanted to date, didnt want anything to do with me, so i lost the love of my life. So i say stick with who you have now, and if it dont work then ok.
2007-01-30 13:51:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tweetz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with your gut feeling. Yea love can be a rough thing to deal wit, especially when you have to choose between two guys, but in the end your heart will know who you want to be with.
2007-01-30 13:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved guy #1 you wouldnt be having any doubts at all dont you think?
2007-01-30 13:50:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋