2007-01-30 05:16:49 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your profile says you r a Daddy's girl and so i recommend that u should not.
2007-01-30 05:27:16 · answer #1 · answered by shupra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, time for some soul searching. I'm assuming you're a virgin? And you're the legal age of consent (around 16-ish in most states)? I'm not going to give you a yes or no answer (and you shouldn't listen to anyone who does!) but I'm just going to give you a few things to think about.
You should be asking yourself how well you know him, how much of a connection the two of you have, and if you think your relationship will last (remember the difference between love and lust, you want to be really sure it's love.) Ask yourself "is this the guy I want to spend the rest of my life with?"
You should also check your motevations (and his!) if he pressures you, you should not even consider it! Do you want it too, or would you just be doing it to make him happy? Remember, you have your whole life ahead of you, and if he's really the one for you then you will have many years of happiness together. No need to rush anything! You should know each other very well, and love each other mentally as well as physically.
Finally, are you comfortable with him? Have you discussed birth control, what the two of you would do if you got pregnent? Could you look him in the eyes the morning after?
If you decide to say yes, good luck, and stay safe! If you say no, some good lines to use are "I don't think I'm ready" or "I don't think we should do this". Practice what you're going to say to him in front of a mirror. Tell him you really care for him, but you just don't want to have sex (and DON'T let him convince you to once you've made up your mind no, he won't respect you if you can't stick to your desicions). Say that you will bring up the topic again when you think you are ready. Good luck, and be strong!
2007-01-30 05:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by heya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you ready for that step? ask yourself these questions and if you answer no to ANY of them, then you're not ready to have sex.
1) Are you ready to have a child?
2) Are you ready to put yourself at risk to lose your life by contracting some horrid STD, such as HIV?
3)Do you know about birth control methods and contraceptives?
4)Have you spoken to your parents/adult/family friend/big sister or brother/a teacher/school counselor/any adult that you know, openly about sex yet?
If you've answered no to any of the above 4 questions, you may want to put that love fest on hold baby girl. Go talk to someone you know about the subject. And if you decide to do it, be sure to use protection! Condoms only cost a fraction of the price of medication for STD's and/or well child check ups!!!
2007-01-30 05:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready for such a commitment, then by no means do it just because he asked. If you need to ask if you should, chances are you aren't ready for such an act. Be a little older, because if you are a virgin and you lose it too young, you'll regret it. If you and your boyfriend break up, you'll find a guy in the future that you wished could have been your first. I know I did.
2007-01-30 05:26:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No one can give you an answer what you should do. that is up to you. If you think you are ready.. then you should...but do not feel like you should just because he asked. If he loves you and cares about you then he will understand if you don't want to have sex. It is good he asked other than trying but don't feel forced to just because he asked. It also depends on your age...if you are younger then I personally wouldn't...and it depends on how long you and your bf have been dating..if its only been a short period of time i wouldn't either...But it is up to you to decide!
2007-01-30 05:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by MB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what you want to do, and no more. You don't have to take it just because it's offered. ;)
Ask yourself if YOU feel you are ready, and if your relationship has reached the right place. Are you and your bf willing to discuss sex, condoms, pregnancy, previous partners, and STDs? If not, then you are definitely not ready.
If you're not ready, just tell your bf that you care about him very much, but you're just ready to have sex with him. If he cares about you, he'll respect that.
2007-01-30 05:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta ask? Are you planning on starting your period that day? Unless this is the first time, your question indicates some really bad judgment or a lack of selfconfidence.
Try it; you'll like it.
2007-01-30 06:30:58 · answer #7 · answered by john s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get ready! Shoot the gun start the game!
He will take you to that world for which daily you are anxiously waiting! But it comes at an appropriate moment!
But respect the love..After leaving the bed both of you should get married. This sex is not for fun...
2007-01-30 05:28:08 · answer #8 · answered by SESHADRI K 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
According to the Bible you should wait until you get married. On the other hand, you do have free will. Just by asking the question I don't think you are ready. If he really cares he will understand. If he doesn't understand, you don't need him.
2007-01-30 05:41:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you can find the answer on here! You have to decide if its want you want to do, also depends on your age, and his. If you chose to, don't be pressured, make sure you have protection sorted, and if you chose not to don't worry just let him know exactly how you feel. Only do what you want when your ready...and safely!
2007-01-30 05:28:49 · answer #10 · answered by unscathed_sheep 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Given the way you asked the question, I'd say you should say "NO". If you can't handle talking openly about it, then you're not ready for it. Give it some time. When you're ready, you won't have to ask us.
2007-01-30 05:28:04 · answer #11 · answered by Daddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋