I am almost certain that my boyfriend has a foot fetish. I always catch him looking at my feet. He hasn't mentioned anything about it, and I don't want to ask him about it for fear of embarressing him.
We have an otherwise healthy relationship, but I want to include this if it'll make him happy.
My questions are... Any other ladies out there with SO's with a foot fetish? Should I let him come to me with it or should I initiate it?
I should also add that this does not bother me at all. I would be completely open to this if this is what he likes.
2007-01-30 05:11:52 · 5 answers · asked by Shiny Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love the response above me, lol.
Believe me, if you're correct in assuming he has a foot fetish, he will be overjoyed to have been spared the dilemma that most of us have to deal with: If we reveal it to soon, the girl might freak out. If we reveal it too late, the girl might freak out. Some girls will freak out no matter when we reveal it. How do we know when it's ok to say this? argggh!
He is so gonna love you. Just be certain that he really has one before you shove your feet in his face, that could make for an awkward moment, hehe.
2007-02-03 06:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by nope 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dear...sometimes I read questions and I think that people are nuts... I read your's and I could actually feel for you. My situation is completely unimportant to you and I am sure you don't care so I will get to the point...
If you really think he is interested in feet and you want to feel it out...start by going and getting a pedicure (make sure you tell him about and ask his opinion - like what color should you have your nails painted)... then when you get home show him (read his reaction)... tell him your feel are dry from them handling them and ask him to put lotion on (see how he reacts) - At this point if he says no or seems turned off by it, you tried and oh hell you got a pedicure out of the deal... If he enjoys go the next step... As he is putting lotion on one foot (and do this with you seated and him kneeling or sitting on the floor in front of you) start to play with his crotch with the other foot... Then if it starts getting hard.... start by slidding oyur foot up his shirt... From there put your feet by his face, see if he kisses them or try to suck on them... at this point it will be pretty evident... and if all else fails, at this point just ask him "Is there anything else I should do with these feet..." I am sure he'll open up like a book! Ta Ta Good Luck!
2007-02-02 14:33:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They say that the MIND is the most important sex organ. Some gus like leg's, some breasts or rear ends, some feet. It's a very individual thing. I'm a leg and foot man. If you make your feet avaliable to him in subtle ways, he'll respond. If you're the kinda girl who enjoys haveing your feet massaged and paid attention to, then you two are a match made in heaven. He'll require very little prompting if he is in fact fond of your feet. Good luck and have fun.
2007-02-03 08:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by Peter F 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a guy who has foot fetish, and I would have loved if my girlfriend asked me about it. I will be surprised at first, but love it later. If you think he will be embarrased, just ask him to do a foot massage for you as a start, and when he is done tell that you loved it and want more. This way he will not be embarrased and it will come naturely.
2007-01-31 02:34:24 · answer #4 · answered by eaga70 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no way he'd mind. If he looks at your feet so much, He's got the itch to do more to 'em. He's a lucky guy to have a girl like you who will enjoy the fetish with him.
2007-01-31 17:45:32 · answer #5 · answered by Philip Kiriakis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋