My friend is 25 n a girl.Shes been dating a guy she met online for 2 months.Their whole relaionship has been long distance but luckily they do get to see each other 3-4 times a week.Thing is "cracks" have already started to develop in their relationship it seems.She admits hes boring to talk to on the phone alot of the time.Last night she decided she didnt want to talk to him cause it would be boring n there would be nothing to say.She ended up answering anyway when he called.She was pretty quiet before telling him she was going to go for the night.He must not have wanted to go cause she raised her voice a bit n said "Cause I told you I had a long day at work n wanna relax." He then annoyed her by asking yet again about his brother.Hes mad at her cause his brother says she hit on him.My friend is not like that n she maintains she didnt do anything.Her man was still mad and ending up hanging up the phone on her. Ummm, whats going on with these 2? Seems like its not working....
2007-01-30 04:53:19 · 9 answers · asked by ju_ty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not trying to be nosey one bit. Her and I live together, so I notice how things go whether I want to or not.
2007-01-30 05:06:13 · update #1
how about you mine your own life??
2007-01-30 04:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like its starting to turn sour. If she is displaying her annoyance with him, and it seems that he is coming on a bit strong, maybe those two need a break.
Wow, you have a lot of insight in to this. Instead of avoiding him, she should come clean.
The distance is not the issue here. They've seen each other like 20-30 times, maybe it was too much, too soon and now its snowballed out of control.
Advise her to have that talk with him as soon as possible. Nobody deserves to be jerked around.
2007-01-30 05:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you should get a life honey. Let her work out her own issues. It's none of your business. Sounds like your friend is a big girl and can handle her own issues. If anything, you just need to be supportive of her if she decides to move on from this guy.
2007-01-30 05:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they need to end this and move on, but thats not up to you. all you can do is be there for her and be a friend. when the time is right she will find the one shes supposed to be with. until then she will go through bad relationships so keep being a good friend to her!!
2007-01-30 05:02:13 · answer #4 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know to be honest, maybe he feels she did say something inappropriate to his brother. If she thinks he's boring she should try to get him to do other things with her, if he's not willing then she should just move on. He might like the way his life is.
2007-01-30 04:58:42 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stay out of it and let your friend deal with her own issues.. sounds like she's doing a pretty good job messing up things on her own and really needs no assistance.
2007-01-30 05:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by mosaic 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is how it's supposed to work: You meet people you find interesting and attractive. You date. You get to know them. THEN you decide if you're compatible or not. If not, you stop dating them.
What happens now is: You meet people you find interesting and attractive. You date. You get to know them. THEN you decide if you're compatible or not. If not, you try to change them and "work on the relationship",
It's not working- she needs to learn how to date!
2007-01-30 04:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that it is working. But it is none of your business I think. Still, maybe you could just talk to her and see what's going on.
2007-01-30 04:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is Grow UP!
2007-01-30 04:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by step b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋