Do guys look and judge everygirl they/you come into contact with?

Question

or see walking down the street? is s3x really on a guys mind every 10 seconds? do you not get tired?

Answer 1

Unfortunately, yes I do make this kind of assessment of almost every female I meet.

Fortunately, I'm a nice guy, and whether i fancy you or not, will have little impact on my dealings with you. Unless I think I have a chance.

Even more fortunately, I'm currently very happily in a relationship, so although I still make the assessment, I would never act on it.

No, I do not get tired of viewing and rating women!

Answer 2

I analyze everyone I come in contact with, I don't usually make any major long term judgments of anyone though.

I would have to agree that I do categorize the women into mostly two areas.

Does she meet my standards or NOT and will I allow her to show me how seductive she can be or NOT.

I think about sex a few times a day but more like couple of times an hour.

I prefer quality sex over quantity. Can't get anything done with 3 to 5 times a day interruptions. Once or twice a day is good!

Well I am in a long term monogamous relationship so while I still measure most women against my standards it is simply out of habit not for any intended consequences.

Answer 3

I think we don't look and judge all the time. We do look all the time, if is a nice looking girl, we will look a lot and analyze her from head to toes. If she is wearing sexy or even more provocative clothes, then we look so much more than we start having x-rays as we imagine her with less clothes or even naked.

Now, the judging part comes only if we have longer than just a couple of seconds to look at her. If she is just passing by, we look, “compute” and we keep on going. If we can stare at her longer, or even better, have some contact with her (maybe talk, say hello, or ask a question) then the judging and a deep analysis comes into play.

Now about sex, yes, we are by nature very sexual. I don’t think we have sex in our minds every 10 seconds, but it could be some times. The problem is that we are very visual (as you should probably know) and it only takes a little hint to make us think about sex. But is not thinking about sex, is more thinking about girls, and how good they look, their bodies, their hair. We guys just love you girls. Again, is nature!

Do we get tired? Nope. Simple. We only get tired of it right after we had sex, and just give it a couple of minutes and we will be ready again and back into track. That’s the way we guys work, like it or not.

But don’t think that we are so different. We might not be thinking about the same, but you girls also have some “obsessions”. You girls actually analyze way deeper every guy you see, and it is even worse cause you go deeper into his life, his manners, his looks, what he likes, what he does for a living… etc etc and all that happens by just looking at a guy for a couple of seconds, doesn’t have to be longer.

The key though is that it must get your attention, if you are attracted to him, all those ideas and questions go over your head like a flash. And that is the way you girls are. Why? Cause you are thinking right away how good a relation would be with him, how good he would be as a boyfriend/husband/partner, and yes, you think also how good he would be at sex too. Is like the opposite order of how we guys think.

And that is the reason why a couple complements each other, because as individuals, guys and girls are not “complete”, but once you have a couple, and they have learned about each other, they are “complete” and ready to have a family.

Accept us guys as we are, just like we need to accept how you girls are, and life will be much easier when it comes to dating and living together as a couple. My wife and I have done it (still lots to learn) and we both agree that we are very happy together. And yes, I am romantic with her (bring her flowers, take her out for dinner, buy her gifts, etc etc), and sex is also very very very good!

Answer 4

Usually it is only for the first time you meet a girl, After that you start to evaluate them on personality. Quite often I find myself thinking "she's stunning" then after speaking to them for five minutes thinking "never in a month of sundays". Opposite is true too. Suprising how sexy a good personality can be.

Anyway, when you first meet someone you can only judge on looks.

I heard it was every three seconds men think about sex. Not sure if that is true but it does come into the equation quite a lot.

Answer 5

Yes, looking and judging is the way it goes. It's not that we would act on every one, but it is entertaining.

Thinking of sex every 10 seconds? A ridiculous notion which has unfortunately propageted into a "fact". Can you imagine how little motivation in life a man would have if the thought of sex was a constant and persistant preoccupation? It's dumb reallly.

Answer 6

Yes but guys are not the only ones who judge everyone girl they meet, women are the same. People are very judgemental, so be careful how you phrased that hun.
Yes men do think about sex alot, and no they don't get tired of thinking about it. But they get tired of having sex.
They all just pretend they can have sex all day and night, but they really cant.

Take care

Answer 7

I think if a guy has a chance to pass judgement he takes it, but not all guys are the same............ Just most of them infact a better part of them are exactly the same............ and sex, well that's on thier minds every minute of every day in my oppinion and then again i'm a rather oppininated person and i choose to voice it freely but anyway yea guys if the have the chance to pass judgement they take it
still dreaming in idaho
stacy

Answer 8

I do not get tired I have a 10 sec fantasy about every women that looks Moderately attractive that I see in my day to day life.

I am a snouted clovin beast and should be locked away.

Answer 9

it isn't unlawful for the different man or woman to the contact you, regardless of the indisputable fact that it should be a contravention of your bond to the contact him. What you may do is a million. once you've an lawyer contact him/her with the intention to preserve it. 2. in case you do not have an lawyer, you may contact the DA and enable them understand that the guy is contacting you. The DA ought to tell his sufferer/witness to resign. 3. flow to county courtroom and ask for a restraining order. clarify that you've a time period of bond that asserts no contact, yet that the guy keeps to the contact you. it really is putting you in chance of having your bond revoked and also you may flow to detention middle. to steer away from a false impression that you're doing the contacting, you ought to decide on to have the order to save him remote from you. 4. do not contact him your self, or have any chum contact him. That violates your order. enable the courtroom or DA or lawyer cope with it.

Answer 10

I don't judge at all. No sex ain't on my mind every 10 seconds, It's on my mind always. No I don't get tired.