this guy i have been together with for the past 7 months recently started talking ot this other girl, he still keeps me around and talks like he usded to but when it comes to hanging out he chooses her and just leave me hanging , they stopped talking for 2 weeks and he was back to his normal self saying how he missed me and i really believe it but they started talking again yesterday , im so confused , ther eis this guy that likes me alot but i dont know if i want him i want my guy ! i love him , and care for him but he always trys to make me mad and playes games what should id o or how do i talk to him ?
2007-01-30 04:49:52 · 22 answers · asked by angie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because a guy says he likes you, doesn't mean he's not going to play you. A guy may tell several girls he likes them, and play them all. Just don't get too serious with someone like this...you will only get hurt in the end.
2007-01-30 04:54:33 · answer #1 · answered by Back in the game... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is an obvious player, and you shouldn't put up with it! You should stand your ground and make him sacrafice the other girl for you. If he chooses her, you know you've done the most right thing, because he was a jackass all along, but if he chooses you then you need to watch him closley because he still may not be faithful. Just know that it's not your fault and it's just guys who can't seem to get enough of girls, which is ridiculous. I'm sure there's a guy out there who really loves you properly and doesn't even THINK about another girl. Good luck!
2007-01-30 12:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a big hug and get out of there! Dont you like yourself?
Would you do this to another person? Mabey the timimg isnt right. He obviously doesnt care for your feelings no matter what he says. Stop wasting YOUR PRECIOUS TIME and make yourself move on to something worth while! Ask your friends too, most likely they dont think this guy is too hot either. The Red Flags that keep popping up are not for decoration they are a warning. Heed them. There are friends and better waiting for YOU. They cant find you because your spending your time with this jerk.
2007-01-30 12:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by reginammorrow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're making excuses for this guy and it's quite obvious that no, he doesn't care about you. If he did, he wouldn't be talking to another girl or only hanging out with you when he has time. He's using you to pass the time until he can be with the other girl. Unless you want to continue to be treated like this, dump him. You're the one allowing him to treat you like dirt and you're the only one who can stop it. Have some self respect and find a man who can be faithful and whose words match their actions. This guy is telling you whatever you want to hear so he can keep using you. End it and don't look back.
2007-01-30 12:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow do I know what you mean! I've been through this and I never would've thought I was the type of person to fall for it. So I guess it can happen to any one of us. And you decide to be fair and logical and understanding - but they just take advantage of it.
The conclusion you come to (often only after quite a while) is that quite simply some people just aren't right. You can't salvage a fruit that's gone bad - all you can do is throw it away. He won't get it, he won't understand but you will not be able to teach him. He has a lot of hard lessons to learn before being able to understand. He may never do. I understand that you love him, I really do, but you have to look out for your own feelings. Especially since he is not doing so. You know what's best for you.
2007-01-30 13:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your course of action... I'm a guy but I have to ask you, why are you letting these guys play you? Are you that much of a charity case? Can't you find a guy that YOU like a set some limits on what you'll except and/or how you want to be treated? God, girls, Woman Up. Stop being a receptacle.
2007-01-30 12:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dear Angie, Sounds like you like this guy , but he upsets you by not being there for you. Who would like that? I suggest you find other guys to hang with and you just might find someone who he ready to have a relationship that is mutally satisfying and you find yourself less interested in this other guy and be moving forward before long. Good luck
2007-01-30 12:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mystified101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Angie, did you already ask this question?...
For the second time...he is just not that into you and he is a player...you want a player or a guy who will treat you right.?? ball is in your court...
If you keep doing this you are getting what you deserve and sending him a message that it is okay to treat you that way...either get out or stop complaining...sorry but that is the truth.
2007-01-30 12:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's using you, girl. Get rid of him. He's a scrub, and will end up getting what he deserves. The longer you stay with him, the worse you'll feel. You'll keep giving and giving and he'll just keep taking and taking. Let the other girl have him, he's already made his choice. Don't settle for 2nd place, be someone's 1st place prize.
2007-01-30 12:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are getting played and know it, so there really is no question to answer. You have two choices:
Be his friend only because he will always keep you in wings until something else better comes along
or
just have nothing to do with him at all.
2007-01-30 12:55:48 · answer #10 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋