my best friends sister suppose to get marries next week but she just found out the the man she is to marry can not get it up . if you know what I mean. she call me to ask me what should she do . I know me and Ido not want to give her advise as a player ,but real advise she been saving herself for years and now this.She was so mad I had to tell her I will call her back .Should she back out of this wedding . she is only 25 year old
2007-01-30 04:24:28 · 16 answers · asked by The man behind the mic 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhh maybe u should tell her that u cant really get involved in this situation and have her talk it over with her fiance and then they should make a decision together b/c that is what married couples do and she is about to be married.
2007-01-30 04:37:33 · answer #1 · answered by ~ ★ ~Soulja Girl~ ★ ~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First this young lady needs to revisit the foundation of this relationship/commitment she has made with this young man.
Did she go into this relationship looking for a man that could satisfy only her lustful desires. Or did she become committed to a man that truly loves and respects her mind and body.
She also needs to ask her self, what am I so mad about, and at the end of the day who should be blamed for this emotional anger.
What exactly was she saving herself for?
2007-01-30 04:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by karena p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves the guy then that shouldn't matter. If she loves him then she'd do anything for him. They have medicine that can help a guy get up, she shouldn't back out of it if she really cares about him. If she's marrying him for only his penis then she should back out but if they are truly in love then he can go to the doctor and get some viagra or something. It sounds like he has an erectile disfunction and it can be cured. Tell her to stick with it.
2007-01-30 04:37:36 · answer #3 · answered by taco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yipes. That is a tough one. If she is only now finding out something so serious as this, then I would ask myself, " what else is he hiding?" This doesn't sound like an honest individual. Perhaps she could at least postpone the wedding and get to know more about this guy.
good luck & blessing to you all
2007-01-30 04:31:12 · answer #4 · answered by Wood Smoke ~ Free2Bme! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does her boyfriend/fiancee have a medical thing or is he old? Cause if he has a problem and they havent talk about it may she should delay it cause as unimportant as it seem sex is a very big part of a relationship especially a coulple that is getting married and are going to a honeymoon, i think he should have told her before
2007-01-30 04:31:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really loves him and she can handle that, then she should stay, but if she can't then she should go. There are alternatives other than having sex. Tell her she needs to think long and hard about her situation.
2007-01-30 04:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to see a doctor and find out the problem
2007-01-30 04:30:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell her to back out.
Don't go through with it. If he can't perform and they want to have children, then that could be a problem.
If she is fine, tell her to call me.
2007-01-30 04:29:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
She needs to look to herself on this one. I wouldn't want a lifetime of bad or no sex...it might work if he's a les...
2007-01-30 04:30:20 · answer #9 · answered by ndngrlz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they should find out why he can't get it up, but if it is love she wouldn't leave him just because of this.
2007-01-30 04:32:21 · answer #10 · answered by jojonjesse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋