My boyfriend and I are great. We love each other, and I can see myself with this man. Problem is, I am probably overly jealous. When i met him, I knew he had a lot of friends that were female. Now that I have grown to love him, I do get really jealous and pissed off when his female friends send him comments on MySpace or text messages. I trust him 100% and I know he wouldn't cheat on me with any of them, but i just want to rip their heads off. For instance, he gets comments that say "Hey cutie pie", "Hi Sweetie", "I miss you", and so on. This one girl that is probably his best girl friend next to me, sent him a text and it started off with, "Hey babe". Talk about wanting to go through that phone! I talked to him about it and he tells me over and over again that she is just his friend. I know I am overly jealous. It is not just him, this happens with any guy that I chose to have a serious relationship with. I need some advice on how to just let these comments roll off my shoulders.
2007-01-30 04:22:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not want to be "that girl". I want to be the gf that doesn't show her *** when some girl tells my boyfriend "Hi" but in all honesty, it is hard as hell
2007-01-30 04:23:40 · update #1
Yeah but the thing is is that theyre not just saying "Hi" theyre saying "Hi babe"! That would make me feel uncomfortable too. If I was you I would just tell him to put himself in your shoes. How would he feel if a bunch of guys were sending you messages saying " Hi babe.Hi cutie. Or Hey Beautiful." These are terms that people who love each other say not friends. Do his guy friends say that to him? No. Im sorry as you can see I disagree with this situation.
2007-02-06 17:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Rach 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand you 100% i have the same problem with my man also. But mine well go into the bathroom when a girl calls and talk for an hour alteast or he well tell me shhhhhhh! not to say anything when he is on the phone. I got over my jelousy by not even taking note of whats going on and when something like that bothers me i go and do dished (even if i have a dishwasher) or go and do something in another room so that i dont get the urge of listening or looking to see whats going on. if that doesnt work tell him that it bothers you and even if it doesnt stop atleast he know that it bothers you. Its not being overly jelous its about caring.
2007-02-07 03:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by sweti2284 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is not good for anyone who is jealous. Just take it off your shoulder. By my understanding you need to move on before you get hurt. A Man Is Always GOING TO SAY I"AM MAN.When it comes to . Tome this is not true love. its a game of who's who's.
2007-02-07 03:26:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's simple. Love & Jealousy. Are no where near together. If you wnat someone to believe that you Love this Guy? Don't be jealous of him. Trust and Love go together. Jealousy only makes you look stupid. If you have honest supicions? Then you need to get out.
2007-01-30 20:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well either something is really going on here with the ladies or you have some serious insecurity's... my b/f is this way with me and i sometimes can not deal with it... dont push him away cause really this is what your doing... work on yourself and try to make you feel good enough for him, you need to be happy with who you are and know that he is yours not these other girls
2007-02-07 01:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by yum_nummy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jealousy will ruin your relationship every time.
2007-02-06 20:14:18 · answer #6 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋