My daughter will be 2 in February and she already has a ton of toys. I would like her to receive clothes, books or movies instead of more toys. I have thought about including a list in her invitations that includes her clothing sizes and ideas for books and movies. Is this rude or okay?
2007-01-30 04:18:10 · 14 answers · asked by mamaladybok 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
I would include the words "If you wish to bring a gift"....since no one is obligated to bring a gift to a birthday party or any other type of celebration. Then perhaps some gentle suggestions of reasonably priced items.
It may have been considered somewhat rude in the past to suggest the gifts you'd like your child to receive but I think times change, and I'm happy that you don't want your child suffering from toy overload. Kids today have way, way too much in the way of toys.
2007-01-30 04:52:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is Not at all rude. I make a wish list on birthdays and Christmas for my son. It make it easier in this world to toys. In my opinion, it's hard enough going to the store and trying to pick something out but when you don't really know what the child likes or already has, it makes the buying experience better. Also, parents are picky about that they let their children watch or play with, so it also lets the buyer know what is appropriate for the child. When I make the list for my son, I also include a little note saying that you do not have to stick with this list, and that these are just some suggestions. I say do it.
KJ
2007-01-30 13:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by KJArk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have three kids and all have birthdays around Christmas and New Years. Every year starting in about October I compile a list for each child. These lists are distributed to family and close friends. These lists work for both birthdays and Christmas.
You can create a "wish list" at Target, Wal-Mart, or Toys R Us on-line. You can also write a little something about your daughter to let people know what she likes/favorites and a short explanation on why you would like her to not receive toys. Then you can just include the link(s) on the invitation. Make sure that you include lots of choices in all price ranges.
2007-01-30 13:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mum to 3 cute kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is fine, I would rather buy something that will be used, than some toy that gets thrown in the closet never to be played with. Toys, toys, toys, what kid doesn't have too many. My son is the same way, I would prefer a book or a puzzle any day for him than a toy.
2007-01-30 17:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by proudmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the risk of possibly offending your guests outweighs the benefit to you of receiving the gifts you want for your child. You should do everything you can to make the invitees feel welcomed and make them feel their presence is the most important thing....so empahsizing the gifts on the invitation just isn't a good idea. Most people will provide a gift receipt along with the gift anyways so you can then go exchange it for something more practical.
2007-01-30 14:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by SmittyJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't put it in the invitation...maybe include an RSVP with your phone number, then when someone calls to tell you that they're attending, maybe hint around that you're cleaning up for the party an your child has somany toys you're running out of space to put them...other than that I don't know..
2007-01-30 12:37:22 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mommy of 6 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put "I would like books, clothes and movies please." That away it sounds like it coming from your child. Then let them call you for suggestions. That away your not saying no toys but telling them what she needs. Don't be offended if she does get toys.
2007-01-30 13:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by rnlmamma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be okay it saves me the time calling the parents asking what they need or want. I have children with wants and needs too, and don't have the brain capacity to also remember my child's friends wants and need as well. I think it is a good idea I'm gonna try it this year with my kids.
2007-01-30 14:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by lovelittlelulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you aren't asking for pricey items yes it is okay. I was once given a list of suggestions and everything on the list was 20 and up. I was so offended that my son didn't go to the party.
2007-01-30 12:54:05 · answer #9 · answered by guysmommy_09142001 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it can have everything to do with the way you handle it. make sure all suggestions are reasonably priced! but kind of word it as things she would enjoy....don't have it a LONG list but make it more of a general outline. (don't be too specific...like an exact outfit or game!) some people may apreciate suggestions. just know people will get what they want anyway....don't be offended!
good luck with it!
2007-01-30 12:41:14 · answer #10 · answered by StinaMommie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋