what goes on at bachelor parties?

Question

I would like to know if all who are present at the party are going to get lap dances, or have contact with the strippers. My boyfriend is going to one at a small bar in a few days and I am really bugging out.

Answer 1

A lot of the times, yes. But if you trust your boyfriend, it shouldn't be a problem, really. I mean, wouldn't you ever, like if in vegas or something, go to a chippendale's show for fun or something to that effect? It's kind of harmless in a way because the chances are so slim that you'll actually end up hooking up with the stripper, etc. It's kind of like live porn I guess.. you can watch it, and it arouses you but it's kind of a pointless thing. Again, the truth is, if you trust your boyfriend, even though it can definitely bug you, it doesn't have to be the cause of a major argument or anything like that. In your gut, if you know you can't trust him, then maybe it's better you find out now rather than later. Also, if you really want someone on your side to find out what happens, if one of your guy friends or cousins or brother, etc., can go, hook him up with an invite too so you can find out if it got too wild. But again, trusting your guy is key.. if you know you can trust him, then realize it's just something that guys do. It doesn't necessarily mean that they are going to get super wild and cheat on you or anything like that. I think you know best yourself how your guy will act, and that should probably determine if you should pursue a relationship further with him. Anyway, good luck, this is a question that I'm sure thousands of ladies (and men!) deal with on a weekly basis. Hope it works out for the best for you :o)

Answer 2

A bachelor party is just an excuse for touching strippers or even having sex with them. If i were you i would forbid my fiancee to have a bachelor party and if he still wants to do it, i would call off the wedding.