Im a bloke normally functioning and usually raring to go... the pills have taken the edge off my ability to sustain a 'State of excitement!' and they keep the wolf from the door - a little too well. I never thought i'd say this but its becoming a pain (quite litterally!!) Ive just met a new partner (who really works for me) with a real healthy interest in the horizontal sport and although i secretly think she's quite pleased with my stamina - its frustrating to say the least. So come on chaps and lasses any ideas please, magic potions or just some good old advice!
2007-01-30 03:20:58 · 1 answers · asked by chrispin 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I suggest you go to your doctor and say the pills are wrong for you. I suggest you ask to come off them gradually and start some talking therapy. That way you can get to the bottom of what is really worrying you and your depression will go for good. Tablets are just a sticky plaster over the problem. Come off the tablets with the help of you doctor though because you cannot come off them all at once.
2007-02-03 00:38:58 · answer #1 · answered by tinkerbell34 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was on antidepressants and had the same problem. The sustaining was a real problem that I had never met before. Also the time between performing needed to be lengthened to a day of so.
The good news is it does get better, slowly for sure, but better.
The choice between suffering the depression and lack of stud performance is a no brainer, when you are depressed you find sex totally impossible. Better some sort of sexual relationship and less depression than the other way around believe me.
You will eventually come off medication and your performance will return. Patients and understanding required all around.
2007-01-30 05:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?1881
As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.
2017-02-17 16:29:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-30 06:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough
2007-01-31 04:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋