what should I do?
2007-01-30 02:42:31 · 139 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I went to that length, to change my phone number, that means that I in no way want to be contacted by you. Good riddance, and move on is what she wants to do now. No game playing with her heart. You blew that one, and now she looks so much more challenging ,doesn't she ??
She's just not that into you !!!! Sorry bout that~~~~~Jill
2007-01-30 04:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Jill ❤'s U.S.A 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. Ask yourself why weren't you interested in her when you had the chance? Whatever it was is still there. Her changing her number probably has nothing to do with you. If you try and find her, she may not want to talk to you since you didn't treat her right the first time. If you seriously feel that you want to see her talk to her, then go where you last knew was a place she'd be. Try and talk to her. Hope for the best but be prepared for the worse. Best of Luck
2007-01-30 03:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have question for you. If you lost interest, why did you call her? Were you just worried about her, or have your feelings changed? Were you confused in your feelings at the time you thought you really lost interest? Maybe a little scared of the commitment issue? Im not being mean here. Maybe she has moved on and felt changing her number would help her in doing this. If your feelings have changed, maybe you could send her a note if you have her address. A nice card, explaining to her your feelings, or that you were just concerned with how she is doing. If you don't have her address, I guess you will just have to leave it... If it was meant to be, maybe you will touch base again just out of the blue. Good luck to you. I hope it all comes out well for you.
2007-01-30 02:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by Godlover 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
she could have changed her number 4 many reasons.dont be quick 2 assume thats it is because of u,but remember u lost intrest in her so dont go looking 4 her 2 lose intrest again.
2007-01-30 03:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by `'~thicky thick belizean qt~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she supposed to sit around and wait for you to regain interest in her again? From her perspective, waiting on you probably looked like a lost cause and a waste of the time she has left on this earth.
She did the right thing and now you just have to realize that you messed around and lost her. Next time be more careful. Be honest with yourself about how you feel about someone. Don't be careless with a relationship if you don't want it to end.
2007-01-30 03:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by zyllee 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here's what happened, and you aren't the only person who experienced this phenomenon.
You realized how much someone meant to you when you lost them.
When you showed no interest in her after "X" amount of time, she moved on, and knew right away you weren't interested in her. You should do what she's done and move on. Look for bigger and better. Just remember to give them a chance to show their true colors. That way, you'll know what's best for you.
2007-01-30 03:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look her up, ask a friend etc. give it a shot. it is easy to give up...that's why most people tell you to do it. we can quit anything in life. the easy solution. it's the difficult things that we don't give up on which prove to be the most meaningful and rewarding down the road. no one says everything has to sync up perfectly the first time you are together. you have had time to think about her and her qualities. I think any woman should be flattered that you continue to have interest. she could have got a new cell plan or a local number instead of out of the area. good luck to you.
2007-01-30 03:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you lost interest in her and stuff then why are you calling her now?! it's better to just leave stuff the way it is and move on. Looks like she sure did. Unless she's trying to get into contact with you or if you really wanna get into contact with her, i'd leave her alone. Unless you have a REALLY good reason not to.
2007-01-30 03:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it shes with me now!!
Don't call here I'll break you.
Just Kidding ,but still I had things like this happen to me.Just be careful if you deside to see or comunicate again.You might get very disapointed.You can usually feel the vibe when talking to her if she's interested.If you feel this remember your feelings are usually right.Thats when you just turn away and don't look back.Be a man and remind your self that there's plenty of women out there.
2007-01-30 03:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can do since her number is changed. If you are interested in her now then you should go and see her. Find out if she is still working, or lives at the same place.
2007-01-30 02:47:00 · answer #10 · answered by Melissa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋