This guy is annoying the hell out of me. He hardly ever calls me. But when I'm on MSN, I'll always initiate the conversation and he's then, the one who asks me questions, when he should have called me!. I haven't heard from him for a gud few days. He's always like this. Do you think if he calls, I should tell him where to go!?. Sometimes I think his distant behaviour is because of something I've done that's what keeps me calling him....I'm confused, tell me what my next move should be....thanks xx
2007-01-30 02:32:58 · 36 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are deffinately more interested in him than he is in you. Find another interest. Don't go away mad. Just go away.
2007-01-30 02:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Los 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably is not interested in you as much as you would want him to be and has nothing to do with you doing anything wrong. You are most likely one of his many friends who he converses with. Take the hint, next time do not be the first to call or converse with him on MSN. If he calls you or MSN you, then you politely cut the conversation short. Maybe to him you do not present a challenge and you appear too willing. Back off and see what happens. Good luck to you!
2007-01-30 02:49:54 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP CALLING HIM
if you are doing what needs to be done, why should he bother?
Plus it looks bad and clingy, he might be a sleeze who thinks your crazy about him and he has a girl chasing him (maybe you are)
Wait for him to call, yes it sucks, it may be weeks
it may be never, if it is never, and he doesn't worry where you've gone,
then yes, break up with him
or tell him you feel like you're the one always making the calls, and ask why?
Be honest and open in your relationships
don't just worry about things without talking to the other person involved
I know from experience
2007-01-30 02:42:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont call his as$. some guys do jut have an issue with talkin on the phone. my babe was like that for a while i wouldnt call and i just let him do his thing. he came around. now i can talk to him on the phone for half an hour. but he honestly just might not feel comfortable talkin on the phone, carrying on a flirty convo with a girl he really likes. if you cant break him of this habbit, move on, but give him time to find his comfort zone. maybe you should also talk to him to figure him out a little. dont pry but just act concerned, because you do care about him.
2007-01-30 03:51:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isnt taking the relationship seriously. He is probably hanging out with his friends, or family and not even worrying about calling you. Maybe he considers you more of a friend than a girlfriend. Set him straight. Tell him what you think your relationship is, and then ask him what he thinks. If he considers you a girlfriend, then tell him you want him to call you and treat you like a girlfriend, if he doesnt consider you a girlfriend, then just ignore him. Relationships are not one sided. Dont let any guy treat you like they are.
2007-01-30 02:39:20 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's a 'playa'. Quit examining your own behavior as to a possible cause and realize that the guy is 'just not that into you.' Ignoring him is your best best. There's nothing to be gained by continuing the pursuit. He's a jerk or at least he's a jerk when it comes to you. Good Luck
2007-01-30 03:14:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a case of if she puts out the effort I will answer, but I will not make any effort.
He is just stringin you along and has no intentions of pursuing you.
He is too busy talking to other people and only talks when it fits into his schedule.
I think it is time for you to make a new schedule and make sure you don't have any time penciled in for him.
Kick him to the curb... so not worth any time or your company.
2007-01-30 02:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
try sitting down with him and explaining what you've said here and see how things go. Is his rarely calling the only issue in the relationship or are other things going on as well. You hhave to figure out what you want to do as we can't only offer advice. good luck
2007-01-30 02:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by singledad 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its his intent to keep you guessing. Even though you are calling him, he is in the drivers seat. He is just playing games. Don't call for a while.. he will get curious enough to call you. If he doesn't, Oh Well no big loss right?
2007-01-30 02:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude obviously has other things going on.. but likes the attention you give him.. thats why he'll answer you adn not call.... dont even tell him where to go.. just dont call or IM him.. and you'll have your answer. PS. you wouldnt hear from him again.
2007-01-30 02:39:26 · answer #10 · answered by CHELAKIKI 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you think its because of something that happened in the past then ask to make sure, otherwise leave it alone....are you two living long distance? maybe he doesnt have long distance on his phone so if he calls, it would be expensive, ever thought of that?
2007-01-30 03:41:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋