2007-01-30 02:27:18 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have a funny way of showing love you s l u t!
2007-01-30 02:45:59 · answer #1 · answered by oldjr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out why you're cheating (and 5 times!!!) with a guy you claim to be in love with. Are you like this in all your relationships (in which case you need to get to a counselor to see why you have so much trouble being faithful), or is it just this guy? If it's just this guy, you are not ready for a commitment. Don't tell him you've cheated on him -- it will make him angry and there's an excellent chance he'll dump you (as he probably ought to, if he's been faithful himself). How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot -- if he had cheated on you five times, and then told you about it? That's just hurtful. But you need to let him know that you do not regard this as a committed relationship -- with a serious conversation about wanting to see other people. Because that's what you've been doing.
2007-01-30 02:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Corinnique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you cheat if you still love him? Now be honest and tell him. If he hears about it from a third person things will be worse. You risk that he will split with you, but how would you feel if he had cheated on you 5 times?
2007-01-30 02:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by corleone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about who and what it is that you really want. It doesn't sound like you love him if you felt the need to cheat on him. You cheated on him 5 times and really didn't feel bad about it because if you did after the first time you wouldn't have done it again. Take a few days and think about what it would take to keep you from cheating on him. You need to ask yourself if he cheated on you would you honestly want to know, and you'll have your answer. You also need to think about what made you cheat and continue doing so because if you decide to tell him he's going to ask. He's going to be angry with every right. Hope for he best but be prepared for the worse. If he does decide to stay with you it may take time for him to get over what you've done. He may also not trust you and you'll have to earn that back. Whatever he puts you through be patient and accept it because you've created a bad situation for yourself.
2007-01-30 04:02:46 · answer #4 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him, you wouldn't have cheated on him 5 times. But if you're done now, and want to make it work with him, the best is to be honest or else it won't work out. Tell him the truth and from there the ball is in his hands.
2007-01-30 02:35:59 · answer #5 · answered by tania622 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should focus more on not cheating, or look for the reasons why you cheat.
it's unfair to let him know, but it's also unfair that he doesn't know. things like this always turn around and he'll find out.
i think the most honest thing you can do is to tell him and then break up with him. take some time to figure things out, so perhaps you won't be such a skank in the next relationship.
2007-01-30 02:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you do love him, but i doubt you're in love with him ,either way you obviously have issues being with him. Just because you love some1 does not mean they are right for you or that you are right for each other. Also can you be sure that the "love" you feel is not guilt driven?? You need to break up with him get yourself sorted, cheating is never ever justifiable, however it is usually a sign of a deeper problem. Either way i do hope you are being careful and using precautions as it is not just your life you would be gambling with. Good Luck
2007-01-30 03:59:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved him, then you wouldn't be cheating on him. Just think how you would feel, and what you would do, if he cheated on you. If it doesn't make you feel like your stomach just dropped and your going to throw up, then just maybe you don't love him. As for telling him, if you don't, it's going to be something that you'll have to live with. But don't worry, you won't have to live with it for long, because at the rate you're going, your relationship with him won't last.
2007-01-30 02:41:11 · answer #8 · answered by Tink 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW!
Honestly, if you really loved this guy, you'd let him go. I don't care WHO you are, NOONE deserves to be treated like that. If you can't stop cheating and commit to this guy, then you need to let him move on and find someone who CAN. If you care so much about this guy, you'll realize how unfair this relationship is. Two options here sweety, tell him what youve done [because a relationship without trust and honesty will not survive] and if he agrees to put it all in the past resolve in your mind to commit and DO IT! Or: Let him go. Let him find someone who is willing to treat him with love and respect.
2007-01-30 02:39:36 · answer #9 · answered by hopek2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That you are under the false illusion that you love him or that you have no respect for him which is why you cheat on him on a constant basis.
Do him a favour; tell him he is an assh*le so when he breaks up with you he can go on to have a happy life.
2007-01-30 02:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you really know what love means. If you loved him you wouldn't find the need for other men. I don't think you should be in a relationship right now. You are still too into playing the field. It's not fair to your so called boyfriend. You should be honest with him and let him decide if he wants to be with someone who wants to be with others too.
2007-01-30 02:34:41 · answer #11 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋