my boyfriend dosent call for a week i call to see whats up,he says he will call back and never does and i told him i was mad but i wanted to talk about it and he ignors me and dosent text back wat do i do???????
2007-01-30 02:24:53 · 42 answers · asked by deeshae1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and our 1 year is coming up
2007-01-30 02:47:42 · update #1
hunny im sooo sorry to hear this is happening to you. I dont know what he is thinking I dont want to say tha he is losjng intrest but it just may be the case. Or maybe he is really busy right now and going through something. anwywaz this has happened to me before . I would say give him his space dont call him or text him or contact him. wait it out and see if he calls you. if he doesnt then youll know the truth. if he does ask him what is going on and why you havent heard from him. I wish you all the best. Good luck.
2007-01-30 02:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has not called you and you feel there is no good reason (like an argument) then I do not blame you for wanting to know why. Call him once more, and with a voice that is serious, let him know how confused this has left you feeling. Let him know that if he is not willing to call you or return your calls that you will have no choice but to take this as an indication that he is not longer interested in talking to you and will grant his wishes and never call him again. After doing this and he still does not call you, then my advice to you would be to stand by what you said and not call him or you will come off as not serious. I know how confusing and hurtful his rejection of you can feel like. Hopefully he will call you and you two can get to the reasons for all of this. Good luck to you!
2007-01-30 03:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a new boyfriend -- it's obvious that you're a lot more emotionally involved in the relationship than he is. As they say in the book, he's just not into you. And when you call him up like that, it puts him on the spot, because he's hoping to get out of telling you that he's seeing someone else or just not interested in seeing you. If he doesn't call, he thinks you'll get the message. When you call, he doesn't want to talk. Figure it out -- he won't say good-bye, but that's what he means, in my opinion.
2007-01-30 02:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Corinnique 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He's obviously not worth the trouble. Move on and find someone that wants to talk to you.
If you really want to stay with him, don't call him, make him work for you, you've obviously been putting in most of the effort up until now.
2007-01-30 02:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by mq1229 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend didnt call me for a week before, i got really mad at him and he broke up with me so dont get mad just talk to some of his friends and ask if they know whats going on with him!
2007-01-30 02:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call him. Or break up with him. that kind of behavior is childish and he is taking the piss because you are letting him, what I mean is, you keep going back to him. To be honest girl he doesn't sound like he particularly cares much about you. good Luck
2007-01-30 04:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ignore him back, do not contact him anymore. He obviously doing it on purpose. Eventually, he will call wondering what you are doing and if he doesn't you dont need him anyway, move on nobody deserves that kind of treatment
2007-01-30 02:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by *sexy mocha* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats an easy one. If you don't like the way you are being treated tell him. If he refuses to listen or change his behavior, leave him. In order to be treated like a queen my dear you must first be a queen. He's just not that into you...
2007-01-30 02:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but it sounds as though he is no longer interested - move on -
I know it will be hard for you but stop calling and texting him
2007-01-30 02:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Sabre♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Just end it. Don't call if he doesn't call you. It isn't easy but as it seems he is doing the start for leaving you. You can act first and leave him because he doesn't care for your feelings.
2007-01-30 02:35:34 · answer #10 · answered by Nikos M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋