I thought it was men who are less keen on marriage!!;0)
2007-01-30 02:18:29 · 26 answers · asked by Doris 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't appear vulnerable or needy,thank you!! I am independant and take care of myself. It just baffles me why you have to marry someone to be happy!! Love keeps you together not a ring!!
2007-01-30 02:33:44 · update #1
Ironically, one of the reasons why you may appeal to men so much is due to your disinterest in marriage! I'll bet if you started dropping hints on the big day early in the relationship, they'd run a mile. As you are so laid back in this department, they will relax in your company - and presumably since you have no faults and they like what they see - they will eventually think that you are the one for them - and propose. Think of two salesmen in a shop - one pushy, the other relaxed and merely helpful - should you require his assistance. You'd rather buy off the latter - not the one so keen to make a sale. It's a bit like that...maybe!!
2007-01-30 02:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by big pup in a small bath 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Infatuation, Lust, in Heat, who knows? The men are who I am talking about) How old are you, what are your Morals, do you use men to get what you want, is reaching second or third base really easy with you, do you have children, and the list goes on and on. Maybe they see one of these things in you and think that they will be happy. Especially the YOUNG ones if you are young yourself. I am NOT saying that you are like this, please do not take it that way, but something is attracting them and you need to find out what it is before you make a mistake and marry a Jekyll and Hyde.
2007-01-30 02:29:19 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i think it really doesn't mean anything maybe it's even because of ur indiffrence dats is why it happening that way.trust me some of these men actually will run, some of theme just say dat to get into your pant well any way does it really matter i mean it does not stop u from haing fun and if u fall in love oneday than it's even at ur advantage just do what u want luv and express urself
2007-01-30 02:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow...can we swop lives darling...
i on the other hand am dying to marry and settle down and keep meeting men who have been there done that and are just into the freedom thing.
dont get me wrong, they are not bad guys, just that they prefer to stay single.
so lets swap then when you're ready shall we?
2007-01-30 02:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Chariddie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait till you meet that dream guy of yours. When that true love happens youll probably want to change your mind and get married.
2007-01-30 02:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by duskyprince_007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a really nice person,just make it clear fom the start that you are not interested in marrige for the foreseeable future,your right though it is normally blokes that dont want to get married i was married once biggest mistake of my life,all it is is a poxy bit of paper that means nothing,then i had to wait two years to get a divorce just to get out of the situation,good lucik
2007-01-30 02:36:30 · answer #6 · answered by TS100N 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Because you probably appear to them as a needy, vulnerable sort who needs looking after. Carry your own bags and stop swooning and pretending that you're going to faint Doris.
2007-01-30 02:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nikki 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Thats me too
I never want commitment or getting to next stage etc but the men I have met will nag and nag
I don't think they like to see a secure women, it makes them insecure
2007-01-30 02:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by xXx Orange Breezer xXx 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're probably just so loveable, every man wants you for the rest of their lives!
Explain to them at the start, you don't want to rush into anything as big as marriage for a long time, but are willing to have a relationship with them.
2007-01-30 02:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by MrsMatsuyama 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You're a strong female and independant! (like me!)
Men love that...
as for all you desperate females who NEED men..pfft to you!
2007-01-30 02:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋