This girl and i were working toward a relationship. Then she said she doesn't want to be pressured and said she's not ready but would tell me when she is. The other day asked her for her room # in the dorm so i could send her a valentines day card. She told me i don't need to. I asked why and she said cause you just don't. I was gonna ask her to be my valentine. Now i feel like heart broken, what does she mean?
2007-01-30 02:16:29 · 18 answers · asked by Q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She doesn't want anything to do with you, move on and forget about her. IF she is like this now, she will keep stringing you along IF you do get together. Consider yourself lucky that you can move on ans not be with someone like this. Do you want to be USED in a relationship the rest of your life??
2007-01-30 02:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then don't send her one. she means she doesn't want to go through the thanking you part. So, you are crushed, right? So what, when you see her, she will look at you and think, "there is the guy who wanted to send me the valentine, but i said no." You just be a man about it and when you see her, say "hi, how are you?" and keep it very light. She knows how you feel. You just have to be a gentleman now and wait for her to reciprocate. Meanwhile, if you are hanging around dorms, there have got to be plenty of other potential hot valentines, so get busy my friend.
2007-01-30 02:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just shy. Send her a valentine's day card anyways, ask her friends what room # she is and tell them your intentions. All friends want to see their friends have a nice valentine's day so i'm sure they will too. If she really doesn't want to be with you she won't be your Valentine but if what you say is true then she probably likes you and she will be your valentine. Good luck!
2007-01-30 02:20:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is cheating on u! If you send her a valentine her new man will be like who sent you this, and she want have a lie to tell him. And anybody can be your valentines, find someone who gives you more attention, cause she doesnt deserve it. And give that person more than a card, they may not act like they dont care but girls like big things like bears and chocolates and roses and ballons, take my advice. Thanks for asking!
2007-01-30 02:25:54 · answer #4 · answered by jbunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she already have a valentines ... she doesnt want a card to silp in her dorm room while some other guy is there occupying space ... move on ... cheer up someone elses day.
2007-01-30 03:20:41 · answer #5 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question. "She said she's not ready but would tell me when she is." Obviously she's not ready yet...and putting pressure on her (even with something as simple as a Valentine) might just drive her away. Stay friends...keep talking...but while you do, keep looking for someone who IS ready!!
2007-01-30 02:22:03 · answer #6 · answered by koreateacher96 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She feels as if you bought her something that the pressure would be on for her to rush getting in a relationship with you. If she doesnt want a gift then dont get her one, wait until she is ready.
2007-01-30 02:22:06 · answer #7 · answered by baby_luv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh! Tough Luck! I think that she is presently seeing someone else or maybe she just does not like you the way you like her. I think that you should find someone else. Someone better. You still have time before valentines day!
2007-01-30 02:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i,m sorry you had to go through that,but it seems to me she,s not into you.listen don,t wait around for her look for someone else.never let a girl play with your feelings by not being honest and giving you the run around.i hope by valentines you got someone who desearves your full attention.good luck bro-
2007-01-30 02:34:25 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she might be having an affair or may want to break up either way it's not a good sign.
2007-01-30 02:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by Alisha C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋