My brother left me, he suppose to take me to school. I called his phone and he said, "You should've wake yourself up, I'm not your mom, I gotta class so bye". My mom on the other is yelling at me because she thinks I'm always late and that's why he left me.
Well, I wouldn't been so late since I gave him my cell phone. My cell phone had an alarm in it so it use to wake me up. I hate this house, my brother does wrong things and my mom is like "Well, he is a guy." And then, I do little things, my mom is yelling at me like crazy. My mom respects my brother so much because he works, he is going to help her pay the bills. I don't work.
Anyways, I want to move out. I want to live with my aunty, I know she'll be so happy to see me, She'll be glad to take me to school. On the other hand, I know for sure that my mom is going to ask me to come back. My mom is going to see who was helping her clean the house, and when she gets off from work, who was putting food on her table? ME
2007-01-30 02:13:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you are going to move out... yet you cant even get yourself to school?????
hmm.. grow up!
2007-02-06 21:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by merrpet 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think you need to sort out a lot, I mean a lot, before you even start looking for a bag to pack your things.
You seems to be an irresponsible kid. According to you, your mom does the work and bro pays the bills. All you need to do is straighten your studies and help your mom.
Think twice before you even call your aunty to move in with her. Your aunty may feel good to see you because you will only 'visit' her once a while. You start staying with her and do nothing?
My dear, you may not what I had put here. But you better talk to your mom and bro. Get yourself an alarm clock or train your brain so that you go to bed early and wake up early. Who gave you the cell phone?
To be precise, non of this makes any sence and I don't know why am I trying to reason with you. May be I am seeing my little daughter in you.
2007-01-30 10:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Josephene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You work too! You said so in your last statement, she will be calling you back because you clean and fix the food for her. Just because a person doesn't bring in an income doesn't make them less of a worker, many woman are no longer housewives but domestic engineers. Your Mom does respect you too, she'll miss your help. Sometimes parents get off track with work and all, but they still need and love you. Hang in there a while longer, big brothers have a way of making things crazy for a while...I had 2 of them
2007-01-30 10:34:29 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your aunt about the situation. Tell her what you are thinking and as a last ditch effort she can talk to your mom and maybe your mom will see the light. If not then you tried and that is what you can say when she asks why you moved out to your aunts. Your brother on the other hand, take back your phone. Tell him you need the alarm and since he is unwilling to help you, you are unwilling to help him. He can get and pay for his own.
2007-01-30 10:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by w2kaad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're talking about! I dont agree with neither your mom or your brother's behaviour towards you! What I would advise you to do is move out and move on, if your aunt is fine with that. Yes she'll miss you but how does the saying go ... you don't know what you've got untill it's gone! P.S-Take back your phone!
2007-02-07 06:35:54 · answer #5 · answered by kiets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i now how u fell and if u have a place to go i would go for it if i was u i have a problom just like u but i am the one taking care of my brother and i want to move out but if i do i dont no what well happen to my brother he cod get taking away from his mom so if u dont have to take care of a little brother or sistter and u have a place to go u shod go y u still can
2007-02-07 06:30:14 · answer #6 · answered by Little Angle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's working get your cell phone back. If your so unhappy living there talk to your aunt about what is going on and maybe she can talk to your mother to see why she is treating you the way she is. Good luck
2007-01-30 10:24:18 · answer #7 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit whinging and start be more responsible. You can't go through life blaming everyone ( Mom, brother ) about your slip ups. You must be responsible for yourself. Running to your Aunts is very childish, grow up!
2007-01-30 10:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do what makes YOU happy
but before going anywhere...stop and ask yourself why you are moving and if its really bad enough for you to make such a drastic choice.
make sure to be on good terms with your mom incase things dont work out with your aunt
good luck :)
2007-02-06 19:18:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
gosh, sounds very complicated.
tell ur mum and bro how u feel and how it's upsetting you. if all doesn't work maybe you can go to your aunty's house for school days and come back on weekend?
anyway, good luck
2007-01-30 10:22:31 · answer #10 · answered by littlemunkay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After you move, even when you move back it changes things.
2007-02-07 04:47:59 · answer #11 · answered by Pat B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋