been together with my husband 5 yrs now. And have been desiring another female. Am I wrong?
2007-01-30 02:08:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No I couldnt see myself needing a women emotionaly, but just extremely turned on by them lately. Yes, more like a one night stand.
2007-01-30 02:17:44 · update #1
My husband knows of my desires and I would never cheat. THANKS! & sorry hunny Im not disgusting.
2007-01-30 02:21:36 · update #2
are you desiring another female for companion or just some fun?
if its just for some sexual fun, i dont see anything wrong with that.
im the same, i have a wonderful fiance who i adore, but women turn me on sexually for fun.
my fiance knows this and is quite turned on by it.. most men are.. lol
if you feel that way, just want to open your mind and your sexuality, talk to your husband..he will most likely be opened to it
good luck :) xoxo
2007-01-30 02:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by nicoles1504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman has a right to have her own feelings and self respect. But sometimes when you have a problem with the relationship with your man theres always going to be a possibility that you will be looking for emotional support from a fellow woman. That emotional comfort feels as if you are attracted to her physically too. But the question is you have to realize it yourself if that is a real attraction or a temporary one. You should talk to your friend about how you feel about her and its also important to know if she also feels about you in the same way. If she does then you should try it out. Theres nothing really wrong about it. Its a matter of what makes you truly happy and completes you as a person at the end of the day. Otherwise Im sure sooner or later you will find a nice guy who likes you too.
2007-01-30 02:21:52 · answer #2 · answered by duskyprince_007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet. There is nothing wrong with desire. We all have desire for different things but being in a committed relationship like marriage means only indulging your sexual desires with your mate. You should definately talk with your husband about it and find other ways to include this in your life. Maybe watching lesbian videos or whatever. If you go outside your marriage for sexual gratification you will be opening pandora's box and your marriage may not survive it. Remember marriage is a two way street. Your husband may be desiring another female also. You probably wouldn't want him indulging that desire. Good luck.
2007-01-30 02:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by whlydg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
.....hmmm.......... it depends.... no, it isn't wrong too feel that way I guess... but if you acted on the feelings can you live with yourself after. I mean if you have several partners before married etc.. and no problem there... then this may fall along with those... as for the husband... well..... if you arn't tied to anything that is really stopping you two from playing a bit... it could be interesting...
reasons I wouldn't do this:
Kids, marriage stress, jealousy, religious, husband... get past those and talk it over with your hubby... even if you didn't do that... it could make for some interesting play time in bed.
2007-01-30 02:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its like getting turned on by another man, u just find women hot. Just dont start havin feelings for someone else, cuz thats messed up. Maybe u could have a little carnal adventure but thats it, or who knows, maybe even ur husband would like to have a 3 some. 99.9% of us wanna do it!!
2007-01-30 02:14:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be blunt: There's plenty of porn out there. See if you like it.
Do not go and seek some other companionship. Cheating with a woman on your husband is just the same as cheating with a man on your husband.
2007-01-30 03:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with finding the female body beautiful. Most women are more turned on by the female body then the male body.
2007-01-30 02:13:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, not necessarily. I am not sure if you have told your husband yet, but maybe it is worth a shot just to express how you are feeling. Who knows? Maybe he will get turned on when you tell him and let you explore your fantasies.
2007-01-30 02:14:41 · answer #8 · answered by Harry Taco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you just been desiring like one night stands or actual relationships with these girls?
2007-01-30 02:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by echc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with that. It sounds to me like you just have a lesbian fantasy. Everyone has fantasies,there is nothing wrong with that.Now,if you actually act on that fantasy,then it is cheating on your husband,unless he's willing to let you try it.Just ignore those who say that you're wrong for fantasizing.They're just uncomfortable in their own skin.
2007-01-30 03:33:48 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋