what would you think?
He says that he wants to wait to have sex until hes married again even though he is divorced
And im a virgin
What is your opinion? Should I beleive that?
2007-01-30 02:01:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanxs To All of your answers!! I actually dont beleive a word hes saying even though he has been a gentleman all this time and he is my age, but if he is very christian as he claims to say why would he ask that???
2007-01-30 02:25:03 · update #1
Audrey,
Don't put yourself in that position. If that is his idea, tell him to find someone who will be more willing to GIVE and less willing to wait. Take him to church and begin studying the BIBLE. GOD will do the rest. You should not have to be in such a position. You have waited this long, wait until your marriage if you are so inclined. I WOULD! Have a great day.
Eds
2007-01-30 02:13:21 · answer #1 · answered by Eds 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
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2016-11-23 13:59:15 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Audrey, if you are under 21, then sleep alone until you guys have commitment and marriage.
If you are over 21, then you should know that, while his intentions may be good in a vertical position, everything changes when you and he are horizontal. That's how it works, so the next day we can say we had great intentions of just a platonic night's sleep.
The reality is, we men will say just about anything to get into a woman's orifices, including "no sex only sleep".
2007-01-30 02:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Men typically give affection for sex and woman give sex for affection. I would be curious about his motivations. He may be a genuine true man and his intention are noble and honest. Is he religious and if he was married then that would indicate that he is not a virgin. So then the question being why would he want to just sleep beside you. What is the difference? I have offered for girls to sleep in my bed if they have had to much to drink at a party or something along those line but it always ended up with sex. So are you ready to be intimate with him. If not I would say avoid this scenario all together.
2007-01-30 02:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by GoodWillHunt 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
I should probably suggest you say no. First thing is why would he want to sleep with you in the first place without any hidden intentions. Second thing if he wants to talk to you all night, there are other ways for him to communicate with you. Third thing men will always be men, you can't stop the natural instinct of men being sexually aroused when he is in bed with the woman he likes.
2007-01-30 02:08:10 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Run, Run, Run!! He's trying to 'act' like a reborn virgin so that you guys have that in common. This guy sounds like a creep. Go cuddle on the couch with him, if you must. Just wondering the age difference between you and the guy you're seeing - it sounds like he's much older, which makes it even more creepy!
2007-01-30 02:14:57 · answer #6 · answered by jerk19magnet 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Well, u can try it out ... Its not wrong as u must hav got a fair idea of the person as u hav been together for months... But be careful and take all necessary precautions... Can never tell when human emotions give way to actions... u know....
2007-01-30 02:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
He may have the positive intention to actually just sleep with you without sex. Let's face it we all need connection and love. But when he's lying there in bed with a virgin, then he may get big, and lose control to his lust, and then try to convince you to have sex. So, yeah he's probably being sincere, but if you sleep with him he will definetelly try to persuade you to have sex with him. He may do it with his behavior, or with his sweet talk.
2007-01-30 02:10:59 · answer #8 · answered by The Velocity Coach 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Audrey you have control of the end result. If he tries anything you can easily say no. That is unless this guy has a screw loose and you think he would try to force something. Since you've been with him for 2 months only you can be the judge of that.
If he wants to only "sleep" with you and you want to do the same then go for it. If he changes him mind that's fine, because only you can change YOUR mind.
Good luck
2007-01-30 02:06:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
Unless you're the best thing sliced bread and you both know it(and I mean you'd better REALLY have it going on, in the brains department, the body and the personality!), he's wasting his time and yours. Go find yourself some guy that doesn't have a clue and let him get a spine. You're like taking candy from a baby!
2007-01-30 02:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 4⤋