I think it is very simple, Just think you love someone and wants to know the person who love really love you or not. How to test them?
Hay... dont think that much seriously... just post what come on to your mind.
2007-01-30 01:48:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tests are no good as men are from mars and women are from venus,it just causes aggro.
2007-01-30 01:58:14 · answer #1 · answered by MANC & PROUD 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That ranks, like about a 2 on the maturity scale.
How would you like to be tested every time you showed up for work? Or got on a school bus? or what ever.. you can't challenge every persons belief too satisfie your own inability too trust. It just doesn't work that way.
Whether someone loves you or not is dependant entirely on THEIR own beliefs and knowledge, a test would prove nothing other then at that moment, at that time.. this is how they felt. And what about an hour later? another test.... you see the worlds point don't you.
We live ourlives as ourselves and should be greatful when another says they love us and share their lives with us but it does not make us who WE are. The relationship should be a part of who we want to be but not who we are....
What if that person tells you tomorrow... bye..bye... in our mind we had falsly grasped that we have a attachment too them and they are who we are... WRONG.... we are still us... and they them and they have a right like us to make these decisions and we react how? by falling apart.. usually and wrongfully so... because we never were part of them or them part of us..... we believe certain things that don't truely exist and don't fully understand what love is about and relationships .....
So... sorry so wordy... but wanted to save you some grief... Be mature about the relationship and where you stand. Be greatfull for the time you have with that person, feel the love and let the relationship grow.
Please get over the fact that you want too test people, or prove a persons loyality as this shows a disfunction in your character. Learn to trust, love and enjoy those for who they are, even if they don't love you... or trust you... or want to test you.
2007-01-30 02:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by Maken trax 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im willing to do anything to be with the love of my life...my only problems are
1. im only 15 almost 16 in 2 months and my parents are evil!!
2. I live in Ohio
3. He lives in florida
4. Hes got a girlfriend after we had something(he couldnt stand the whole distance and not seeing me thing)
well thats my issue ok?
well i would prove it i wouldnt need a test a test is for the weak hearted who really dont care if you love thme and they say they love you leave it at that! but any how...as soon as im 16 i can get a job....im saving up my money and then hopefully im moving to florida and being with him!! god i love him so much...he has the feelings i can tell but hes also got the same feelings for the chick hes with now...and if i dont get to him soon...theyll be married or something and he wont want to be with me...he wants to be with me but we cant cuz the distance...atleast you can hold ur chicky in your arms and look her in the eys and whisper in her ear"i love you" i miss that more than anything! i miss being loved back! she loves you if she says it. just beleive her....love isnt something you should mess with like that...just dont let love die!!!please!!!
2007-01-30 02:00:11 · answer #3 · answered by then she killed my brain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do not subscribe to going about testing people. It could backfire. Time is the best test of any relationship. The quick tests can be wrong pointers. It is selfish as well. It is like a me me me situation.
2007-01-30 02:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by violeo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no such thing as True Love in this world my dear. Love is nothing but natural physical attraction to opposite gender to explore the bodies of each other, to have sex and to procreate children.
2016-03-29 09:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love shouldnt be tested
that is a selfish act
im sorry to go against ur question
but its true
a relationship is a mutual love and respect for one another
it shouldnt be tested
when u test and u fail, u will be disappointed
representing
2007-01-30 03:07:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, if you need to test someone to see if they love you, then you have some issues you need to sort out!
2007-01-30 02:04:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't play games and ask them outright. Playing with someones emotions is a very bad thing to do.
2007-01-30 01:53:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't was for say.... at least a week and then get the to perform a sexual favour on you. If they love you they will and probaly gag a lot too. lol
2007-01-30 02:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by Citizen Ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt have to test someone to see if they love you. Their actions should tell. actions speak louder than words. Good luck.1
2007-01-30 01:53:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋