She had a abusive relationship with a older man who was 31 last year and he turned out to be abusive with some addiction problems. when the relationship ended she started dating another female? Can someone give me some insight on t his please.
2007-01-30 00:52:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She should brush well. Actually there is no insight to give you, she is 20 years old. As parents we want to do what we can to protect our children and keep them safe but they do turn into adults and have to make there own decisions all we can do is be there to support them - even if we feel they are making stupid decisions. You say "another" female so does that mean she has dated girls before? Do you have a problem with her dating women is it you that needs to know how to deal with it? It is a relationship she is in all you need to do is be there for her, love her, support her, and at least be nice to the person she is bringing home. All that matters is your daughter needs to know her mom will always be there for her.
2007-01-30 01:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by mraandmisse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend who did something similar. She had a relationship for 2 years that ended very abruptly, and afterward, she started dating the girl friend that had always supported her through the first few months after the break-up. She says it's because she didn't see another girl, she saw someone who genuinely made her happy in a time that she was not happy. Otherwise, she claims not to be lesbian, or even bisexual. Maybe it's that females are more sympathetic about problems with exes? I don't know. But I hope my story helped!
2007-01-30 01:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by bisous148 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Older man abusive and then a girl.
Don't take this wrong, cause there is nothing wrong with Gays or lesbians. However, sounds like she is having trouble forming healthy relationships. If she is gay. all the power to her in her relationships. If she is having emotional issues that are causing her to have trouble identifing herself socially or emotionally or even sexually, talk with her and help decide if she needs help.
Please remember that homosexuality is not a mental disorder though. She maybe gay and may have been struggling trying to be "normal", then she finally gave up and decided to be herself.
2007-01-30 01:02:03 · answer #3 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me it doesn't matter if your daughter's partner is male or female. I think the true question is, What is your daughter seeking within these people's personalities to fulfill HER emotional needs. It appears her partners have a similar thread. She is 20 she has to decide for herself what it is that she is seeking and why. You can ask her to ponder the question but I doubt if a 20 year old desires to be introspective and seek enlightenment.
2007-01-30 01:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by Cleopatra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Uh...i'm 24, yet I bear in ideas what i grew to become into like at sixteen. i grew to become into sexy each and every of the time. Lol. U have executed the wonderful ingredient. U have provided her delivery administration and a listening ear. it is so a lot greater effective than my mom provided me. She grew to become into so niave...bless her heart. She extremely believed i could be a virgin perpetually. I lost my virginity at 18. She's gonna do the deed. Its inevitable. only make some female time to take her to the realm and clarify the emotional outcomes of intercourse. U needless to say lined actual outcomes, yet practice her emotionally. enable her understand that hearts smash or maybe in spite of the undeniable fact that a condom can safeguard your physique, it won't safeguard ur heart.make it clean in spite of the undeniable fact that that her sexual habit isn't appropriate whilst ur around. Even at my age, I even have sufficient admire for my mom to no longer make out in front of her. stable success. young babies r a kit of hormones. Lol.
2016-11-23 13:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another woman lost thanks to a shithead of a man! Don't judge her or think its a negative reflection on you. She might just be looking for a caring relationship and feels safer in a woman's arms. She may not enjoy it and go back to men sometime, but let her be herself and support her (doesn't mean you have to agree with it). But do send her this way cause my wife and I enjoy the company of another woman! hehe
2007-01-30 01:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can find the true answer to this is by asking her. I think maybe now she is sick of guys and feels like they do nothing but hurt her, or she could have been bi and no one knew ask her.
2007-01-30 00:59:20 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 20 years old let her do her own thing! I'm only 15 and I do my own thing. I have my girlfriend and my boyfriend!
2007-01-30 01:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ally cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's hot
maybe her door swings both ways.
no matter what, support her. Don't nag her. She'll figure things out on her own
2007-01-30 01:09:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gust let her chose what sex she wants M of F its up to her
2007-01-30 01:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋