I find the dating world impossible today. I have been divorced for 10 years and devoted to raising my son. Now that he is grown I am ready to explore dating. The dating world is very different compared to 20 years ago. My two experience have been painful and alarming. I am sincere and honestly seeking someone who would like to spend quality time together. I am a homeowner, college degreed and intelligent woman. Why is it so hard for me to find LOVE?
2007-01-30 00:43:43 · 7 answers · asked by redheadscan2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
in love age doesnt matter its the attitude which makes love to blossom keep trying you will meet the mr right
2007-01-30 00:58:18 · answer #1 · answered by jaikumaar6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're looking for it. I'm a 37 year old mom with an 18 year old son. Granted, I've been with my b/f for 7 years now, but I wasn't looking for "love". Go with the flow and enjoy your life right now. Don't go rushing into finding "love" again. You've just spent all these years married and raising a child. Time to have fun and enjoy what the world has to offer you. Love will find you when you least expect it. It always does. Good luck!!!
2007-01-30 03:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by declaude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did it after 8 yrs
i was alone with a growing son and he came first for yrs and yrs
i went out had fun and met mr right
i was not looking it just happened now i have met my soulmate and love of my life
go out have fun get hobbies go to a game or concert and you will find it
2007-01-30 00:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me just tell you, it is hard! You have to "put yourself out there". Give your friends and co-workers subtle hints that you are "looking", they may just set you up with someone great. Also try dating sites....
2007-01-30 00:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 40 and it gets harder and harder the older we get, sorry this doesn't help much, I recommend just getting out there and being yourself, and not looking too hard, and eventually it will just happen
2007-01-30 00:50:57 · answer #5 · answered by snjl67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definitely try online dating..u can be open and honest finding someone..u can pick out what u r looking for on certain sites...just don't do the bar scene it totally just about sex!!
2007-01-30 00:56:16 · answer #6 · answered by moonkitty62875 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out 'Love Smart' by Dr Phil McGraw. www.drphil.com
2007-01-30 00:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Ripplediane 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋