I know he loves me so much and he did a lot of things for me he is somewhat disappointed because despite the things he did for me I still couldn't trust him. Have you experienced the same?
2007-01-30 00:27:46 · 15 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is something about him that makes you uncomfortable then it is better to end the relationship. If you do not trust him completely then there is no chemistry between you.
You cannot be happy with someone that you do not trust. You cannot have a real relationship without trust.
Even if you cannot pin point why you feel that way, it is still how you feel. Your instincts are trying to tell you not to be with him and you should follow them.
Take care,
Troy
2007-01-30 05:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't given you any reason to doubt him, then it's your baggage, honey. I always go into any relationship giving the guy a lot of trust and respect. Let them prove me wrong, but at the beginning I have a positive attitude. It's very easy to let doubts and fears get in your way. When I'm feeling especially vulnerable or doubtful, I just put on the song Hold On by En Vouge and then I feel better. Ask yourself this, though, if you do allow yourself to trust him, will that make you needy? Perhaps you are afraid of becoming too demanding and you know that will push him away. Read He's Scared, She's Scared......
2007-01-30 08:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by spiritual.rollercoaster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you truly love someone, you trust them 100%. Did he do something in the past that makes you not trust him? Or are you just insecure? I can tell you right now that nobody wants to date an insecure person in the long run that accuses someone else of doing things and/or not trusting them. You will have to move past this or things will not end well in your relationship. Believe that.
2007-01-30 08:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must give you a reason not to trust him completely or you have been played in a past relationship and now find it hard to trust completely. If he is a good guy who loves you and cares about you then you shouldn't have any reason to worry. Give it some time. Good Luck
2007-01-30 08:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by Lace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, but let me tell you out of experience you should start to trust him I know it's sometimes difficult but try your best, because he now sees that you don't trust him and will start giving you reason to not. Believe in yourself and you will see things will go better! Trust him and let him know that you trust him!
2007-01-30 08:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how long you have known each other.. If its a new relationship then it is normal & you need some more time to trust him completely.. But if you have known him for quite some time & are still unable to trust him then maybe your subsonscious level is warning you against this relationship.
2007-01-30 08:35:42 · answer #6 · answered by charu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this day i have a lil trust in my relationship,because i never know what they are doing or were they are at.So when they don't call or have a hard time talking about it i just think that they were out doing something i would not want to know about.
So if you fell that he is doing something worng then just let him no and be real about it...
2007-01-30 12:07:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never, n why don't u trust him.Love builds on trust n if u don't u never make a real love.
2007-01-30 08:33:10 · answer #8 · answered by DJ101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't handle a relationship without trust. I think he loves you or else he wouldn't waste his time doing things for you. Good luck !
2007-01-30 08:51:16 · answer #9 · answered by Arianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have with my ex gf and thats y we broke up but i just couldnt trust her cause i had a troubled past
2007-01-30 08:31:38 · answer #10 · answered by bloody illusions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋