i just never really got the oppourtunity to do it now i think im too old to even try anymore. What should I do? Should i go for guys now?
2007-01-30 00:23:22 · 21 answers · asked by ebdog2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no rule or law that you must have kissed a girl before or at 18 yrs. Hell, no, and you are absolutely normal. There are a lot of people, boys and girls, who had never experieced such thing until when they are wll in their late twenties.
You are probably little bit shy. That's ok. Again that is also normal.
Try to hang up or mixup more and more with girls, chatt witth them and befriended one or two of them. You will be surprised how quickly you come to develope close frienship and relationship with one. A good bye kiss would come first, and slowly a much closer friendship would lead to a more intimate kiss.
It will come one day. Do not worry!
2007-01-30 00:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ebby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dint think it is bad and no I dint think you are too old.I think You are a very sweet young man waiting for the right girl and that is a rarity now a days.Most guys are quick to be all over a girl no matter how he feels about her.You keep waiting till you meet the right one and it will be Worth it I promise as far as should you go for guys well the same thing applies if yoi decide you want to be with a guy just make sure it is a person you truly want to spend your life with.I think y0ou may be a little confused about what you want as far as a relationship and you might benefit from a counsel er to help you sort through it all good Luck to you
2007-01-30 00:32:38 · answer #2 · answered by stegall_sherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 as well and I've never kissed a girl yet or actually been on a real date (meaning not with a female friend). Don't give up. Don't lose hope. Don't go for guys if you do not want to. I'm going to try something this Valentines Day. Maybe get that date and who knows maybe get that kiss. I want my first kiss with an amazing girl not just to get that kiss with any random girl.
Good luck. I hope you wind up with a great girl.
2007-01-30 00:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HELL?? umm... it's not bad, it's not bad at all! NOT... dude where's your mojo??? where's your horny hormones that's in all guys your age??? have you attempted to kiss a girl or have you just waited around for the girl to make the move? cause being a girl we usually let the men take charge!!! If you got beat with the ugly stick then go to a mascaraed party, no one will know what u look like and you can get ur first kiss there!
good luck
hope that helps :]
P.S.-most of the people who replied to this question, are old farts who haven't gotten a kiss either...(the girl above me...) so don't listen to them
let ur inner horndog out!! whoot whoot!! :]
2007-01-30 00:35:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your never too old to kiss a girl. As for the question should you go for guys now well that has to be up to you. Do you feel attracted to girls? Guys? Or maybe both? You have to sort through your feelings and see what you truly feel to answer your question.Once you have figured it out then you can go out and find that special person for you to kiss. So... Go figure out what you want. Good Luck!
2007-01-30 00:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by poetryprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not bad at all!!! This is very normal and don't let anybody tell you otherwise! You will know when the time is right. Just don't dwell on it and don't try to force it to happen. Things like this happen at different times for everybody.
As far as going for guys, if you feel you are bisexual, you could. But if there is no sexual attraction to the same sex, don't do it. That will just be something that you'll regret.
2007-01-30 00:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. Your 18. Your life's only beginning. Kissing lots of girls when your young doesn't mean anything when you finally meet the one your going to be kissing the rest of your life. Unfortunately the world we live in makes it sound like you have to kiss lots of girls before your 18, but that's just a corrupt world speaking. I met my future wife at the age of 23 and I regret all the previous flings and one night stands. Be patient bro.
2007-01-30 00:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by John Doe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you're not serious about the guy thing lol. It's okay, in fact I think it's good to wait until you find the right girl. You don't just kiss the first girl you see unless you're crazy. Just hang on, someone will come around. I think most girls would appreciate your modesty.
2007-01-30 00:31:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there is nothing wrong with it. It just comes down to the way things play out if you like to see things that way. At least you haven't just gone and kissed any random girl just for the sake of it, that could mean a meaningless first kiss.
2007-01-30 00:29:49 · answer #9 · answered by yagoonamate 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what have you been DOING the last 18 years of your life!? ... i know 6th graders who've kissed girls!! c'mon!
seriously, normally, i'd be all "it's ok, everyone goes at their own pace," but this is just ridiculous. find a girl to kiss, quick, or be mocked for the rest of your life.
have you even HAD a girlfriend?
btw, when you're with a girl, DO NOT wait for her to kiss you. kiss her first. girls usually wait for the guys to take charge... and they usually do... unless it's you, i guess.
so kiss someone QUICK.
2007-01-30 00:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋