My boyfriend left for a survival course two weeks ago and said he would contact me after he got home, which should be two days ago. But he hasn't contacted me yet and I am getting worried about his safety.
We were facing some problems in our relationship before he left for the course and both of us decided to take some time to think while he was away.
I don't know if I should give him a call. I don't want to bother him in case he is not ready to talk yet. And at the same time, I am very worried about him cause he didn't contact me like he said he would. I even started to wonder if something happened to him.
Should I call him or wait for him to contact me? Am I worrying too much ?
2007-01-30 00:04:12 · 7 answers · asked by s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him contact you. He gave his word that he would. Now he can prove if his word is trustworthy.
2007-01-30 00:14:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always hard to see logic when your emotions are involved
Call him immediately
Don't worry about his health, you would have heard if something was wrong. He is ok
This happened to me a long time ago. Exactly the same. She was on a course and was supposed to call. For 10 days nothing, I gave her the benefit of the doubt thinking she was on the course etc. Then when it finished I called and she had hooked up with someone on the course. I'm glad I didn't wait to call her. That was it bon voyage from me.
I hope your situation is different, and he hasn't called because he hasn't worked out his feelings or something. But whatever it is he is hesitating to call for a reason
2007-01-30 08:13:18 · answer #2 · answered by Oz Billy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about him just give him a call, and tell him you was worried about him because you havent heard from him and you just wanted to make sure he was ok..Take it from there.. Maybe invite him to dinner..
2007-01-30 08:08:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and find out.
2007-01-30 08:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by batu5001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text message or email him first... and give it a few more days before you call him.
2007-01-30 08:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by Shelley S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea call him he might just be tied up in somthing or he could be in trouble
2007-01-30 08:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by bloody illusions 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him you were worried...
2007-01-30 08:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋