2007-01-30 00:01:10 · 25 answers · asked by alexis christian 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can, but do you really want to?
2007-01-30 00:11:53 · answer #1 · answered by chizzylene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No! Sorry to say but once a pedo always a pedo. That is like the next worse thing to murder. No wait that's worse. The victims of murderers don't have to relive what happened to them but the victims of pedos do. Pedos are murderers who got away with killing their victims. Their victims have to relive that killing moment everyday fro the rest of their life. How and Why would you put yourself and your children(future children) in that position? You said you found out does that mean he told you or he lied and you found out some other way? Either way if you take my advice or not PLEASE be careful. You don't know what you might be getting into. I hope for your sake that he is a changed man. Please let us know your decision. My heart goes out to you.
2007-01-30 08:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by angleyez_18 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
When I was 18 I dated a guy that I thought was great, he was in an ROTC type program for the coast guard and said he loved me, blah blah blah fast forward a few months and he gets arrested and his mother asks me to come over to her house so she can talk to me. She told me that he'd been accused of molesting his foster brother and that he was in jail awaiting trial.
Fast forward another few months, after putting my hope and faith in him and believing him that he'd never do the things he was accused of he shocked his parents and me with the confession that he actually did do it.
He plea bargained and ended up getting something like 18 years (they got him on a lot of counts) but think about how his mother felt, how the little boy he hurt felt, how I felt when I found out that the guy who supposedly loved me was busy trying to get busy with his foster brother.
NO I could never accept that kind of person in my life. I got pregnant shortly after he went to prison, and I think "THANK GOD" I found out before I did something stupid like go further into the relationship... ie living together, marriage, etc
Because he could have just as easily have done it to my child as he did to that little boy.
And NO ONE has the right to put that fear into another person's life.
Do you want to wonder someday (if you stay with him) if he's molesting your kids when you're not home? If he's molesting their friends, or someone else's cihld that you don't know?
If you aren't missing a few brain cells I'm sure that you don't, and if he's a true pedophile you'll always have to.
2007-01-31 03:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by joidropp 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NEVER! , Not only is this inmoral ,but if he knows you are aware of it and you still go along, he will loose respect for you ,and will do same to the children if you have any! Pedos are very sick men , a trauma in childhood is all it takes to make one and there is never an ending to it! Trust me on this , RUN!
2007-01-30 08:32:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Any young children around? Is he in love with you or after them, using you as the middle man?....How do you know he's a pedophile? If you caught him doing something and you don't report him your just as wrong and just as much to blame as he is. The law can charge you too. REPORT him and get yourself and anyone else away from him. Good Luck. Remember crazy people are like rabid dogs, they will turn on you on day.
2007-01-30 08:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
absolutely. and have 12 children and make sure he spends as much time alone with them as possible. and don't forget to dress up in school girl outfits all of the time too.
2007-01-30 08:25:10 · answer #6 · answered by foghorn 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Baby what are u still doing with him?!!!! Run, fly glide, do what ever but staying. Darn!!!
2007-01-30 09:04:03 · answer #7 · answered by nocirpac 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why would you even ask this?if he is then there is always an chance he will hurt someone.why would you be with an guy like that.unless you are helping him ,them you have a bigger problem.
2007-01-30 08:06:00 · answer #8 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
No, and you should probably distance yourself from him as much as possible so you don't get implicated in his lifestyle, too.
2007-01-30 08:05:58 · answer #9 · answered by chrisatmudd 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you mean pedophile......no, thanks. I might be able to accept him as a human being (locked up, of course), but NEVER as a "boyfriend" or even a friend.
2007-01-30 08:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
no. he isn't sexually attracted to me, he's sexually attracted to someone else. not fair to me. and he's gonna end up in jail. it's just a bad situation all the way around.
2007-01-30 08:09:05 · answer #11 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋