Okay lemme introduce myself first. I'm an 18-year-old college boy who just started the second semester. There is a girl whom I am honestly quite attracted to. I have never talked to her, but I will definitely start talking to her next class. As of now, she's single. That's at least what her facebook profile says. Valentine's Day is coming soon, and I am wondering if I should do something on that day. It looks like too big of a day to pass up. I know giving her a gift on that day will look extremely odd, especially because we haven't even talked (well it will happen within 2 days). I honestly don't know what to do. I'm trying to take it slow, but there is a conflicting school of thought that tells me to do something. Should I just do nothing? Or is it okay to write her a letter saying that I would like to get to know her better or something like that? I really don't know what to do. I feel that I should make some move, but I don't know if it's okay to do so. I'm in such a predicament.
2007-01-29 23:43:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't get her anything on V-Day as that could be kinda 'pushy' and being very forward. However, I would just go up to her and ask her if you could take her out for dinner or something so the two of you could get to know each other a little better and then take it from there.
2007-01-29 23:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by kewltazdude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
February 14. that's a Wednesday this year. Asking her out on Valentines day would desire to prove splendidly or horribly, in accordance with how she solutions you. the two goodies or a crimson rose are intense high quality presents.
2016-11-01 21:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by canevazzi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey check out www.womenshelp.net. They have some great links for awesome thoughtful gifts that are really reasonably priced! Good Luck I am sure you will find something! Send it to her from a secret admirerer and once you start talking toher you can tell her it was you.
2007-02-01 12:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend, before valentines day, then by her something small, but not too extravagant.
Buy her a card and a bouquet of lolly pops. And that should be good enough for now.
2007-01-29 23:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Pristine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well as u said she is single and valentines day is around the corner so if u dnt get in there, then sm1 will, so when she's alone go to her and introduce urself, and take things from there, :) and du get her a little something if or if not ur together by then
2007-01-29 23:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by monaUK 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to have he know who you are before you start getting things for her. She will think that she is having a staker b/c she is pretty. Make sure you find out what she likes and then ask her out on a date. Have fun! Make it a night she will never forget. Good luck!
2007-01-29 23:51:11 · answer #6 · answered by fxysxysrkly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude chill talkk to her first then buy her gifts cuz sure u like her but get to know her a little bit more
2007-01-29 23:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i'd wait and see how the conversion goes beofre you go to far.. maybe if you saw her on facebook you can talk to her on there.. msn or something?
2007-01-29 23:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if she is seeing anyone that will answer your question and let you precede with whatever you feel is right
2007-01-29 23:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by oldmanarnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip of yourself first =p uhm,.,.try to loosen up, approach her and get to know each other.,.,.the rest, is up to you,
2007-01-29 23:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by lostinhislostlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋