I broke up with my girl friend simply because i asked her if her friends (girls ) do have boyfriends . i was scared that single girls could influence our relationship. she became annoyed because i insisted that she had to know if she considers these girls as friends. Her point of focus was that she is not suppose to know and she doesn't want to know if her friends are committed or not. After along querrel we couldn't come to a compromise. i left her and never called her and she never called me too. But i dont see a reason to go and ask for apology for insisting on that fact that she ought to know about her friends intimacy to a level.
Please i welcome evry detail . thanx
2007-01-29 23:31:57 · 12 answers · asked by Sawaboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even i dont like wen my bf asks about my friend's doing
by her point of view u should be concerned with ur gf only
n if she were annoyed that u shud move toward her...relationsips doesnt goes like this..if 1 is annoyed then u should move for patch-up n viceversa
i'd be better if u once call her now bcoz the time has passed n so her anger level too
2007-01-29 23:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by stunning.sheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah but why INSIST that she knows?? Sounds more like you think that she is lying about not knowing.
You shouldnt allow something as trivial as this to split the two of you up. It really is petty. If she doesnt know, she doesnt know. End of subject.
I have some general advice for both of you. DONT SWEAT THE SMALL STUFF. Her friends' relationships have little/no bearing on yours (unless she has no mind of her own).
2007-01-30 07:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by Chimera's Song 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You must be a very insecure person to break up with your girlfriend because she didn't know if her girlfriends had boyfriends or not (who cares if they do or not? Just because her friends are in a committed relationship or not, has nothing to do with your relationship.). If you would break up over something like that, you two should stay apart, because you obviously don't really like her. Grow up a bit before you get another girlfriend.
2007-01-30 07:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are very insecure, if you are worried about the effect of other people on a relationship. Either the relationship was strong enough to stand up to others, or it wasn't - obviously it wasn't. You have to get over your issues - I doubt there's a girl out there that would tolerate such inquisitions on the lives of their friends.
2007-01-30 07:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by cuddles_gb 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a crazy situation to get into. I pity you mate, what a thing to fall out about. Clearly you were not right for each other. I see no reason for you every to live in the same world as her again let alone contact her.
2007-01-30 07:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you are so wrong
that means you don't want her and you are tryna find out if her friends are avialable.
you better get together back if that was yuor only obstacle.
no offence but you were wrong
2007-01-30 08:16:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be, you are better off with some one who does not get up tight like that.
2007-01-30 07:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
perhaps she got the impression that you liked one of her friends by asking that?
2007-01-30 07:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by italiana_bella 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take it easy. jus go n tell her that you love her. explain ow absurdly things are going and that nobody's responsible for that.
2007-01-30 07:37:36 · answer #9 · answered by Abhishek 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
1. better leave her
2007-01-30 07:36:08 · answer #10 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋