I dated this one girl for like 6 months, but she broke up with me....for about 2 years we were still hanging out acting like boyfriend and girlfriend and I was dating on the side...but recently I started dating someone I like a lot...since my ex found out she's been depressed and crying for a week straight, so after reevaluating everything she decides to give us another shot. We've been soo close and had such a history that she's the one I've wanted since I met her...now my current girlfriend....I have to dump her.....and she hasn't done anything wrong and has been nothing but nice to me......We've only been dating about a month, how can I make this less painful for her? Please Help me
2007-01-29 23:14:11 · 14 answers · asked by EddieC52 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've only been dating her a month. You just say "I'm going to get back with my ex-girlfriend we have a long history together, sorry. You are a cool person, maybe we can stay friends and then I'll dump her for you in a year so, how does that sound?"
2007-01-29 23:32:46 · answer #1 · answered by btpage0630 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Have you ever heard the expression, the more you stir an old turd the more it stinks? Well, you are stirring a few old turds. The only thing that comes to my mind is that you are extremely young or just a selfish idiot. You dumped your ex girlfriend twice -- this would indicate that the two of you were pretty fed up with each other crap to continue on. You are now dating another girl that you are looking to split up with to go back to the ex that you have such a glowing relationship with. Amazing that you can't figure out that you have a self-destructive personality. If I were the new girlfriend, I would probably kick your nuts into your nostrils. Grow up and consider the harm and hurt you are bringing to everyone else.
2016-03-29 09:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r a STUPID *** ---------- I dont know in which bad wor i should call u .................. nyway even if u dump this current girl of urs she might feel hurted 4 sometime but later when she realizes y u did tat she will be definitely happy and thankful tat she was saved frm such a culprit.... but remember today u can be happy by once again rejoining with ur ex but eventually the girl who has already dumped u will dump u againn later in future so at tat time u will be left jus all alone without anybody neither ur current nor ur ex..... tats a miserable situation but guys like u really deserve tat.................
2007-01-30 00:16:18 · answer #3 · answered by ROCK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right thing Dude is to just tell this girl that you "cant"...? be together with her... and go to your ex... That would be the mfuc*ng Stupid thing to do... you ex dumped you.. and now she want you back just because you are unavailible She is Week.. so are you if you go back to her... No history can make up that she broke up with you in the first place.. you need to move the Hel* On!!! i feel baad for you (Date) Aka Girlfriend now... you should reconsider..
2007-01-29 23:37:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, SHE DUMPED YOU. It's her fault that you decided to go with someone else.
second, the other girl likes you back. please give her a chance before you let the ex girl into the scene. It's not her fault she seems to love you.
Also, ask the current girl if she still loves you. If she says yes, then obviously she gonna be the most hurt one here.
2007-01-29 23:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Pristine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy can make a women want what is not entirely hers. what i mean is how do u know ur ex just wants what she cant have??
Make certain ur ex is for real before u dump ur current gf.
&if u do, don't be a coward, do it face-to-face, gently,with honesty.
She'll be hurt that u used her as a rebound, &that u never really got over ur ex, but im sure she'll recover &learn from u.
2007-01-29 23:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're going to dump an otherwise sweet girl for a chick who only wants you when you're unavailable? You are both immature and deserve each other. Please dump your current girlfriend NOW and spare her the misery of being with a loser like you.
2007-01-29 23:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by BluntTruth 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ur r bounded by ur hearted but u dont wanna hurt ur current gf ..
if u have any friend who is single n more good looking,caring n loving than u then ask him as if he is intrested in ur current
n if he agrees then introduce him with ur current gf n try to mingle ur gf wid him let them exchange their phone no.
then make ur friend to move closer with her by calling her thru phones,sms or some where roaming
meanwhile this whole incidence u just try to ignore her [make least calls to her,talk 2 her in hasty,always says that u r busy so u'd cal her later but then dont call her ..etc etc]
look definately she wud br hurted but by doing this there wud be someone 2 her n strenghten her up
she wud get emotionally supported by some1
2007-01-29 23:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by stunning.sheena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The three of you need to relocate to Utah. :|
[Below are links to your new religion you'll have to convert to and real estate you'll need to look into]
P.S. You're an idiot.
2007-01-29 23:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
AS the saying goes.......misery loves company.
2007-01-29 23:26:53 · answer #10 · answered by meemadee2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋