is it ok to deny your partener sex after an argument. i think not?

Question

lets say me and my girl have an argument, mnot about cheating but something else, not a fight nothing physical
but we mad at each other right now
if i got to my girl and want sex or to lay my head on her lap
or want her twist my dreds like she always do
and she says no
would i be wrong if i went some where else for that attention
even though i wanted it from my girl and i went to her first.
i don't feel u should ever be denied that unless you don want hem anymore i dont care how mad u are

Answer 1

oh for goodness sakes....if youve just had an argument with someone you love and it hasnt been resolved then of course you arent going to feel like sex or to show warm fuzzy feelings....how do you think your girl would feel if she is mad at you???...and how childish of you to pout over that and to go seek loving elesewhere...I think you have a LOT of growing up to do and need to learn how to treat people with more respect

Answer 2

It depends how long the argument has been going on for!!
If it was weeks that would be the starting of your relationship
going downhill and probably you would end up going to someone
else for sex.
If it is a matter of days you should not even think about looking
for someone for sex. If you thought that it was okay you could
start an argument anytime and that would give you an excuse to
go with somebody else.
I know one thing - if I was your girlfriend I wouldn,t be happy at
reading this question. I,d dump you then you could go and have
sex with anyone you want!!! But who,d twist yr dreds?

Answer 3

So every time you have an arguement you're going to run out and cheat on her with another woman? How self-righteous can you be? It is more difficult for women to get over hurtful things that are said that it is for men. Give her some time. If this is really the way you feel, she doesn't need you, because you obviously don't love her. If you love her, stop thinking about yourself only. If you don't, feel free to go out and find another woman, but don't do it expecting her to be there waiting for you when you feel like coming back.

Answer 4

You should respect what she feels.I think you dont love your gf that much because if she refuse you seek other people's attention.What if she does that to you too?will that hurt you too?See the point there?Maybe she feels that she wants to calm down first,be alone and when she feels good with herself,then im sure she will be open to sex.Sometimes,its how you convince your gf,if you did the proper way im sure she will give in to your wishes as long as she sees that you are sincere enough not to do things that will hurt her again.

Answer 5

I know if i was angry with my partner i would most likely deny them sex but i would let them touch but yes it is wrong if you go elsewhere for the attention. Maybe you should at least try to make up with your partner. Though having those thoughts sounds like you aren't that into your realationship

Answer 6

give the girl a break she isn't a sex slave no woman is let her cool off before you go asking her for sex that will just make things worse and yes it would be wrong to go somewhere else for that attention she should dump your ***

Answer 7

looking somewhere else for "attention" aint gonna make the situation any better if you wanna go elsewhere then break up with your girl, otherwise your just goin to hurt her, wait for you girl to cool down after the arguement, and say sorry, then she'll probably give you the "Attention" your looking for

Answer 8

well ladies remember how u guys are always screaming commitment well u committed to fulfilling all your mans needs
because u didnt want anyone else to please him but you and vice versa. if a man cant get it from his woman who is he spose to get it from
if the roles were reversed and we were mad and didnt want to have sex you would say we were cheating

but i promise you at some point at least half you women tell your girlfriends make up sex is the best sex

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Answer 9

Depends.,I think she felt bad.,and your words or action compelled her to be sad/help less.,but when you approached her means NOTHING serious..let be friends she should think it in that way...I don't know ..personally speaking after a fight we (my self and my gf) used to have very good in sex.

Answer 10

It is okay to deny your partner sex anytime you do not feel like it