I also logged into yahoo IM, and within 10 mins, he logged off. I'm confused. I call him every 3-4 days, he doesn't call me hardly. Do you think that is excessive of me? and how can I turn the tables? I'm thinking bout just dumping him
2007-01-29 22:37:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He told me he hasn't called cuz he presumed I might have been busy!
2007-01-29 22:40:34 · update #1
The thing is tho, I always thought he was playing hard to get - cuz he's experienced with women.
2007-01-29 22:42:16 · update #2
You're not very good at taking hints are you?
2007-01-29 22:41:07 · answer #1 · answered by BluntTruth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun. I have work soon so I can't really answer your question thoroughly. If anything, just email me. If you call him 3-4 days, that is NOT excessive of you. It seems like you're putting more effort into this relationship than he is. That is truly painful and if he acts like you don't exist then he's a jerk. Relationships shouldn't be like that, ***especially Long Distance Relationships. In Long Distance Relationships it's crucial that you communicate and keep in touch. My cousin went through a similar situation as you did. She felt like she wasn't loved because she wanted to see her boyfriend so much! He could careless and barely drove out to see her. He showed no effort. She dumped him, and now she's with someone better. Someone that could appreciate her.
Oh good lord. If he's "experienced" with women, and is being a player, then he's a ***** asshole. I mean you guys shouldn't call each other EVERY SINGLE DAY, but you should at least keep in touch and he should SHOW some effort in the relationship. Simply put, if there's no effort then how are you going to know that he loves you? Ok work time lol. Good Luck!
2007-01-30 06:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! If he logged off after 10mins I think that
was a pretty good hint. Take it. Find another bf.
2007-01-30 06:42:40 · answer #3 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ryt! Leave him he's playing childish games which are time consuming. Try calling maybe he has some sort of miraculous explanation for his actions, if he does'nt then it's time for you to move on to greener pastures.
2007-01-30 06:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Darksword 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably has a really good explanation for that!!!! don't jump to conclusions.... if you are looking for an answer, there really is only one place you can find it and that is with your bf!!!!! i think you should just ask him straight, that way you can mo'e on and enjoy your life instead of waiting around for him and always feeling guilty and confused.....
2007-01-30 06:50:22 · answer #5 · answered by andrew p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get lost. plus if you only calling him every 3-4 days, he could be doing anything. i think you should dump him and get someone who actually wants to be with you. if you want you can email me ya msn address if you got it
2007-01-30 06:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u shud just get rid nd find sum1 closer 2 u who wil apreciate u more
2007-01-30 06:41:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋