I'm in love with a girl in my life I've known for about seven months, and over the last couple weeks have been hanging out very often, I have never been a timid person, I'm actually quite confident, but I'm stuck, I want to have more than friendship with her, and my gut is telling me that she feels the same. Here's where I'm stuck, I had this opportunity to kiss her one day, and found myself lacking the confidence to do it, so now I'm a nervous wreck, I want to know if I should just go for it? And after blowing it the first time do I still have a chance?
2007-01-29 22:31:53 · 21 answers · asked by thepassivefighter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes go for it or you will never know.life's way too short to let things pass you by,especially when you feel so strong about her,its nice to hear guys get shy too
2007-01-29 22:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't go straight in for the kill - it would be v embarrassing for both of you if she pulled away because you'd read the signals wrong. I would tell her how much you like her first and see how she reacts. Send her a text if you're too nervous to do it face to face. Just say something like "I really enjoy the time we've been spending together, would you be offended if I told you how much I like you?" That way she has to respond and you can take it from there. If she comes back with a negative you can say that you just wanted her to know what a great girl you think she is. Minimal embarrassment. And whatever her reaction, at least she'll be flattered rather than offended!
2007-01-29 23:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by L x 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep spending time with her and you will find plenty of opportunities to make a move - the more time you spend hanging out with her the more confident you will become and you will also know for sure if she likes you more than a friend or not
2007-01-29 22:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her, not us. Pluck up the courage and try to kiss her.
It all depends on how mush of a friendship you have together. If you are really good friends then you may be picking up the worng signals and trying to start a relationship from it may ruin the friendship. If you think it is worth it then go for it.
Love is very difficult to work and mould and if there is a slight opporrtunity to get it, go for it as you may never know when it will appear next.
good luck,
luv and kisses
xxx
2007-01-29 22:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by smudge 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to organise a situation in which to make kissing natural! So next time you see her organise a proper date and then it won't seem so strange!
Dont hang round with her as usual as then it might be a bolt from the blue if you get what I mean.
You don't want to give her to much of a suprise - give a subtle hint that a kiss may be on the cards and then it should just go on from there.
Don't get to heavy strraight away and you should be fine.
2007-01-29 22:48:01 · answer #5 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Course you do!
Making a move like this is going to be nerve racking buy if you think she feels the same way then what have you got to loose?
If it makes it a bit more bearable why dont you ask her out over the phone - or through a text message - its a bit more impersonal yes - but you're still getting round to it!
Best of luck
xx
2007-01-29 22:38:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she like you as much as you think then yes you still have a chance! It's normal for guy's to play double dutch on the first date because your not too sure whetha she'll pull back or move forward for the kill.
2007-01-29 22:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by Darksword 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for it!!!
Maybe dont dive straight in with a kiss, tell her how you feel.
You are already friends so there is no reason for her to think you are just some guy trying to chat her up only after one thing!!
Really go for it...... you sound like a great guy...what a luck girl!
2007-01-29 22:45:37 · answer #8 · answered by pinkkitten 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the girl!But sure why not???i think everyone gives as a second chance!You just have to claim it!Maybe you should try talking to her and expressing your emotions!!Don't let time pass coz then it may be too late!!!
Good Luck!Wish you the best!!!=0)
2007-01-29 22:39:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
oh bless, you really do like her. Go with your gut feeling. Its usually right. You sound like a nice guy and I think its worth a try!! If she likes you back then its all worth it. If she says no then you know where you stand. Hope it works out for you babe.
2007-01-29 22:44:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋