Hi all i am very stressed at the moment i am 23 going on 24 and yet i still havent had a boyfriend. Its making feel like im incapable of having a relationship or theres something wrong with me or my personality. I am getting worried that ill never have the chance of one.
2007-01-29 22:27:02 · 9 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your putting to much worry and thought into it. You need to learn to love yourself before you can expect anyone else to. Theres nothing wrong with you other than you sound like your lacking both faith and confidence in yourself. Maybe you should look out a bit more, its possible your not throwing a green light to anyone checking you out. Don't be afraid to approach a man if you see one that catches your interest but do it with confidence and be yourself. You may find it surprising how fast you pick up a date or two. Good luck to you.
-NmD!
2007-01-29 22:36:27 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, stop putting yourself down. Your 23 heading up 24? And? So you have not had a boyfriend, there is nothing wrong with that. I have spent the last few years single, as I choose to spend time on my own! You will meet someone, but when you are confident in you, putting yourself down wont help, and gives off a negative image. Chill out be proud of what you have achieved and who you are. Society as a whole puts loads of pressure on us to form relationships, but what is the point if you are unhappy?
Stop worrying things will work out fine, in the mean time have fun enjoy yourself and stop worrying!
2007-01-29 23:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, Are you single because NO one has asked you out. I'm sure you have friends. Maybe it is because you are too busy to go out and don't even realize it. I am sure that there has to be a reason as to why and you are just not aware of it yet. I say this as I myself am a big, burly, ugly, mean, nasty looking A-hole. Or some say anyway. Yet with all of this I have a beautiful wife. You sound like a nice intelligent young lady. I'm sure it is just some simple answer as to why. Hey today girls ask guys out all the time. Have you tried this. Hook up with some girl friends and maybe they can help you out. But be careful, you may very well end up with a lot of offers. Good Luck.
2007-01-29 22:36:34 · answer #3 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE NOT A LOSER! Dont look for a bf, look for a friend who happens 2 b guys and then develop ur relationship. ANd there's nothing wrong with you, if u dont believe in ur self y would anyone? The world is big and 23 or 24 isnt that old. YOU'VE GOT TIME!
2007-01-29 22:37:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be stressed,there is no need,enjoy being single,if you are stressed it might come across to potential boyfriends and put them off,chill out there is nothing wrong with not being in a relationship at 23
2007-01-29 22:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by NATALIE W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously have some confidence issues. So before you go out and find some one you need to sort out issues you have with yourself, because dear nobody likes a moaner!
2007-01-30 01:34:36 · answer #6 · answered by girl-mechanicxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety here's some simple advice, Go out more & make yourself approachable. Not too serious & not too desparate!!!!! Oh & don't let the age thing get in your head! "Some1 will recognise your shine if they can handle the glare"
2007-01-29 22:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Darksword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Email me darling and we can talk about this. Maybe we could hook up for a drink and take it from there. ;-)
2007-01-31 23:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same feeling (altho im a bloke)
2007-01-29 22:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by grezzor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋