My bf of 2 yrs say he dun mind my past, and we haven been to an advance stage as he respects me and wanna wait till we get married. An inner part of me tells me he will still mind... i'm breakin out in cold sweat....
2007-01-29 22:17:22 · 13 answers · asked by hyperactive 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All men don't mind whether the gf still virgin or not. Honestly speaking, men usually cannot wait not to have sex until marriage unless the waiting time is not too long. The thing is who expect marry a virgin these days. In addition, if you don't give it up, he will get it else where. It sounded harsh, but that is the fact. There is nothing else in men's mind other than sex!
2007-01-29 22:33:17 · answer #1 · answered by sinyo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think some guys do mind whether their gf are virgin or not, even the ones who don't really care, I am sure they won't mind to be the first ones having sex with their gf.
It also depends on their cultures. In mine for Example, you have to be a virgin before marriage, which means your husband has to be the first one in your life. Guys love it, they feel so special.
Forget my culture, just think about it: how does it sounds when someone says....I f......your wife, or I f.....your Gf. that exactly what happened to one of my friend. She got married to a guy and she wasn't a virgin, her husband was ok with it till her ex-bf showed up and said what i mentioned before.
So i think if your bf wants to marry you and he doesn't care about your past, that means that he really loves you and he is showing lot of respect by waiting till you get married, just make sure he knows that you are not virgin.
Hey this is my opinion so you guys don't have to go crazy about it.
2007-01-30 06:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats good if he respects you, but he's still probably wondering what the other guys had that he doesn't and why you wont do that with him. if you wanna wait then tell him that he means more to you than those other guys and you wanna wait until you two are married to make it more special.
2007-01-30 06:22:23 · answer #3 · answered by judkins1808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on individual. I believe that if you really love someone, you shouldn't mind what had happened in the past. Whatever have happened cannot be undo. We have to look forward to our future. if your bf really bothers about this, then I think he doesn't love you as much as himself
2007-01-30 08:57:35 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys won't mind actually, especially those who are not virgin themselves like myself. Why ask for a virgin when you are one yourself? Hope you come good, God bless. Good luck!
2007-01-30 20:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of them mind that very much. Jealousy is part of every relationship.
2007-01-30 06:23:42 · answer #6 · answered by wode h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't mind really. While we don't want the town ****, I think every guy really understands if you've given it up...he probably has too.
In actuality, we don't really want to sleep with someone that is TOTALLY clueless.
Relax. If he's that shallow, forget him
2007-01-30 06:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Curious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep me posted on this 1, gd question, do guys mind or do htey prefer to b wiv girls who hav a bit of experience
2007-01-30 06:22:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in my opinion i do think they would mind esp. if its been THIS LONG but if they really love you, they would have the patience enough to respect your wishes and wait...no matter how much they want it.
2007-01-30 06:24:54 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. RNC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, tell him you have done it before be honest who cares, everyone does it, and does it again! But only have that conversation once and end it.
2007-01-30 06:27:18 · answer #10 · answered by yawhosucs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋